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Parenthood is A Real Scream
Ana Veciana-Suarez
OK, I'll fess up. I have screamed at my kids. I have screamed out of frustration. I have screamed because they should know better. I have screamed when I'm rushed, overwhelmed, anxious, or because I've just plain had it with their boorish behavior.
Help Your Kids Learn Better
Lilian Presti
In a country where nearly three million students are receiving special education services for a learning disability, many parents are hungry for ways to support their children's learning. The problem many children face is they've lost their zest for learning. Here's a few key steps to reinforce learning
Doesn't Take An Einstein to Raise Kids
Ana Veciana-Suarez
As a mother, I would do almost anything to give my children a leg up in life. This is true, I think, for most conscientious parents. Call it biological imperative, if you will. This is why the 'educational' label is so ubiquitous, and learning colors, figuring out shapes and identifying letters has turned into Big Business
Game On: Are Video Games Harmful
Harvard Health Letter
Getting Kids to Eat Their Vegetables
Lilian Presti
We've all heard of the kid who won't eat anything except chicken fingers and hot dogs -- and maybe you recognize this child well because he or she is yours. Although most children aren't this extreme, many are still not eating as much healthy foods as their parents would like
Taking the Kids To San Francisco's California Academy of Sciences
Eileen Ogintz
We're at the California Academy of Sciences in San Francisco's Golden Gate Park, which in the year since it has re-opened has emerged as the city's top cultural tourist attraction, drawing more visitors than Alcatraz
Sometimes Good Enough is Just Right
Ana Veciana-Suarez
I've often joked that children are the most stressful factor in a marriage, especially for those of us who juggle work and family. Rushed, conflicted and usually overwhelmed, mothers who toil outside the home feel there aren't enough hours in the day to keep up with parenting obligations, job duties and household chores. Life turns into a never-ending to-do list, a blaring alarm that's can't be quieted
Power of Positive Thinking Is Psychology's Latest Focus
Lindsay Lyon
Positive psychology itself is a relatively nascent field. Formally founded a decade ago by the University of Pennsylvania's Martin Seligman, its emphasis on what goes right with people was a sea-change from psychology's traditional preoccupation with what goes wrong -- from depression and anxiety to mental illness of all flavors. ...
Games for Building Better Family Bonds
Lisa Cohen - Life & Beauty Weekly
Your typical afternoon probably goes like this: Pick up kids from school; shuttle to soccer, music class and dance lessons; head to grocery store; get back home to make dinner. You probably wouldn’t classify this as quality time. But who’s to say that everyday experiences can’t turn into special moments? And what better way to infuse fun than with these kid-friendly games
How to Organize and Store Vital Family Documents
Catherine Ryan - Life & Beauty Weekly
With so many responsibilities demanding your attention, it's no surprise when some stuff is just put off for a rainy day. But there's one family project that's more important than you think: securing your family's vital documents. The good news is that it's easier to accomplish than you think. It takes 10 simple steps to organize and store your important personal documents. Here's how
De-stress Your Mornings
Lisa Bova - Your Family Today
For most moms, mornings are a mad dash to get everyone up, dressed and out the door -- hopefully with some breakfast in them. But the a.m. rush hour doesn’t have to be so hectic. Here, solutions for simpler, saner mornings
Battling Over Bedtimes? Not Anymore
Elizabeth Hurchalla - Your Family Today
When it's time to brush their teeth and go to bed, many kids go into meltdown mode. They refuse to put on pajamas, plead for 'just one more story' and get up at least 10 times after they're put to bed. Sound familiar? Follow these steps for combating bedtime bummers and put more ease into your z's.
How to Throw a Green Kids' Birthday Party
Lilian Presti
These days, aren't we all trying to be a bit more green? We're trying to recycle more, create less waste, eat natural foods, and walk and cycle more. So why not take it one step further and throw your child a green birthday party?
Little Girls Really Don't Need to Walk in Our Shoes
Ana Veciana-Suarez
I'm a fan of sensible shoes -- the low-heeled, wide-toed variety that allows me to walk without limping or tripping. I save those shin-torturing, bunion-producing pumps for special occasions. So I don't understand the latest trend in little-girl fashion: kindergartners in high heels.
Giving Kids a Creative Edge
Aviva Patz - Ideas That Spark
Creative and artistic experiences help kids express their feelings and come up with new ideas and ways to solve problems. Studies show that involvement in the arts boosts test scores and promotes academic achievement. You can get your child’s creative juices flowing at home with basic art supplies and the right attitude. Bring out the creative genius in your children with these simple tips.
New Twists on Family Game Night
Sarah Mahoney - Ideas That Spark
The more creative the game, the more thoughtful, clever, funny and outrageous your kids can be. They'll go nuts for contests that require you to show a different side too -- especially if it's a ridiculous one! These five non-board games will help bring out the unexpected best in your family.
4 Ways to Make Dinnertime Work
Elizabeth Hurchalla - Your Family Today
When you arrive home after a long workday, your mind is on your family ... plus the stack of bills to pay, the pile of laundry to do and the list of phone calls to return. But dinner? It's tough to imagine how you're going to make this meal happen at all, let alone make it healthy, tasty and maybe even fun. But believe it or not, you can. Here's how
Sibling Warfare? Stay Neutral
Lisa Lombardi - Your Family Today
When your kids practically come to blows over which one got more cream cheese on their bagel, you know you’ve got a serious case of sibling rivalry. It’s likely you also know that there’s no avoiding it. But while you may not be able to keep the peace between your kids, there are things you can do to squash the squabbling.
Raise a Smart Spender
Sarah Mahoney - Your Family Today
Most kids love the holidays -- and all the giving and getting that goes with them. So why not tap into that enthusiasm for a quick lesson in money management? If you want to teach kids that buying decisions should involve time to think, holiday shopping is the perfect moment. Here are six lessons you can start teaching right now
Money for Something?
Peg Rosen - Ideas That Spark
Certainly, kids shouldn’t be paid every time they put a dish in the dishwasher. But there are chores, tasks and jobs that require extra effort and time. And in this culture, money is the best thing we have to acknowledge our kids’ contribution when they take them on according to Peter L. Sheras. Here, some primo projects for teens and preteens
Sick-day Strategies for Keeping Kids Entertained
Ella Brooks - Sniffle Solutions
'Mommy, I don't feel good.' Sound familiar? It’s the call of an ill child who’s stuck in bed. It breaks your heart, but there are plenty of things you can do. Experts say the best course of action includes activities that are low-key and keep a child busy without wearing her out. Here are 11 comforting and clever ways to help kids have fun while they recover.
Sync With Your Spouse on Discipline Style
Lisa Lombardi - Your Family Today
Is your wife a strict disciplinarian, while you prefer to let things slide? Is your husband a yeller, while you are an 'inside voice' kind of mom? When you have different parenting styles, it can often feel like you're at odds with your spouse. Here are strategies from Harvey Karp, M.D. for navigating this common parenting conundrum.
What Kind of Parent Are You?
Peg Rosen - Your Family Today
For decades, pop psych has embraced the premise that there are three basic parenting styles: authoritarian, permissive, and last but not least, authoritative. The authoritative approach -- a combination of no-nonsense limit-setting with understanding and concern -- which experts say is ideal. Not sure where you fit in? Check out these scenarios
Making Baby Food: Easier & Healthier Than You Think
Lilian Presti
Many parents are beginning to make their own baby food in an effort to start their babies off on the right, and healthy, foot. Contrary to popular belief, making your own baby food can be easier than you think.
Chaos Reigns When College Kids Come Home
Ana Veciana-Suarez
I believe in miracles, in sobering transformations and life-changing experiences. But maybe I've been reading too much fiction. Consider my latest encounter with reality: I sent my 18-year-old off to college. Now he has returned, for the holidays, a 19-year-old with 'college dorm' experience. Which is to say he has acquired some interesting habits
It's Good, Clean Fun And It Rocks
Ana Veciana-Suarez
Oh, my, how those girls love their soaps! They sing to the bars, take them on outings and, when it's time to go night-night, tuck them in a necktie gift box I've labeled the soap dorm.
Parents Influence Kids' Relationship With Food
Lilian Presti
In today's world of fast and convenient food, many people have disordered eating. The evidence of obesity, anorexia, bulimia, binge eating, and an obsession with dieting is proof we aren't healthy eaters. The problem is many of the people with unhealthy relationships to food are parents, and that makes them role models for their children.
Preparing Kids - And Yourself - For Their Hospital Visit: 11 Tips
Sarah Baldauf
Without thoughtful preparation, your kid's visit to the hospital has the potential to morph into a traumatic experience. Yet some upfront legwork on the part of Mom and Dad can ease a child's anxiety and also set the stage for his or her positive future dealings with the medical world. Here's 11 Helpful Tips ...
Beaches Resort - Turks and Caicos
Taking the Kids - Rare Caribbean Resort That Works for the Littlest Vacationers Parents and Grandparents
Eileen Ogintz
Welcome to Beaches Resort in Turks and Caicos -- the family resort of the Sandals brand -- where kids, tweens and teens rule. Plus it's a great resort for parents and grandparents as well.
Oasis of the Seas
Taking the Kids - Aboard the Biggest Cruise Ship Afloat
Eileen Ogintz
As family friendly as imaginable and ocean breezes too, as you cruise from Florida to the Caribbean and back on the world's largest cruise ship afloat -- Royal Caribbean's spanking new Oasis of the Seas
Parenting - Spanking Causes More Harm as Children Get Older
Nancy Shute
Spanking is a huge hot-button issue for parents. Many psychologists say that spanking or any other physical discipline harms children and their relationship with their parents. But quite a few parents disagree, and some experts do, too.
Seasonal Cold or Swine Flu? Moms Face Tough Calls
Deborah Kotz
I sent my 11-year-old son to school today with a stuffy nose and mild cough, as I've done countless times in the past. Now, though, I'm wondering whether I should have kept him home. How do I know it's really a garden-variety cold and not the swine flu?
Trick-or-Treat? Conquer Sugar by Offering Kids Sweeter Alternatives
Lilian Presti
In an age when close to one in five kids in the U.S. is overweight or obese, should we be rethinking our manner of celebrating Halloween, or simply carry on with what we've been doing? The answer appears to lie somewhere in the middle, according to childhood obesity experts ...
Bridging the Generation Gap Has Gone Too Far
Ana Veciana-Suarez
A Pew Research Center study earlier this summer found that while two-thirds of Americans 16 and older saw an age divide, respondents didn't believe it caused a lot of problems in their families or society. The generational squabble, the report states, "is a much more subdued affair than the one that raged in the 1960s."
Parenting - All Kids Need is Love And Attention
Lilian Presti
Many of us parents believe purchasing educational toys or providing them with the latest technology will help them to be smarter, more creative or at the very least help them to get a head start. But there are rumblings that these assumptions of what helps children learn and develop may well have been based more on effective marketing than on any real proof.
Newborn Screening Can Identify a Variety of Treatable Conditions
Dietrich Matern, M.D., and
The blood taken from your baby after she's born will be examined to find out if she has any of a variety of treatable conditions. This procedure, called newborn screening, is very important because these conditions can be most effectively treated when they are identified early, before symptoms appear.
What Parents Do not Know About How Their Kids Use Facebook & MySpace
Nancy Shute
Parents of teenagers know how important texting and social networking sites like MySpace, Bebo, and
What Parents Should Know About Swine Flu Shots
Nancy Shute
The questions I asked at my daughter's well-child doctor visit this week were not happy ones: They were all about what to do if the swine flu pandemic gets much worse this fall and she becomes sick. I left the pediatrician's office just as worried.
Taking the Kids to Alaska and Meeting Some Bears
Eileen Ogintz - Taking the Kids
Welcome to 'bear camp,' an outpost of the Kenai Peninsula fishing lodge Great Alaska International Adventure Vacations, where families come to hike, fish, raft and, of course, check out the bears.
Taking the Kids and Myself to a Spa
Eileen Ogintz - Taking the Kids
Of course, my mom never took me to a spa -- I don't think she's ever been to one herself -- but I've taken my daughters to spas from the Caribbean to Colorado, from Arizona to Austria from the time they were young teens, and like others their age, they are perfectly at home getting facials and massages. It turns out they've got plenty of company
Taking the Kids To Mexico Where You'll Find Adventure, Culture, Beaches and Great Deals
Eileen Ogintz - Taking the Kids
We're just an hour or so from Cancun, a few miles from Playa del Carmen, five miles off the highway along a bumpy road in Rio Secreto, a unique cave just opened to the public last year, after the owner of the land, Don Cleo, inadvertently discovered it while chasing one of his animals
Why and How to Put Together a Family Medical History
Katherine Hobson
Most of us are aware of our family medical history on some level -- we're pretty familiar with our parents' recent ailments, for example, and probably could tell you what our grandparents died from. But if pressed to be more specific, we might not have all the details -- and those can be important. The information a detailed family medical history offers might change your own medical care or provide a needed incentive to make better lifestyle choices.
Teens Who Think They'll Die Young Take More Risks
Teenagers tend to wildly overestimate the odds of dying young, and teenagers who think they'll be dead before age 35 are far more likely to abuse drugs, attempt suicide, get arrested, or contract HIV. Scientists have known for quite a while that teenagers tend to think that an early death is much more likely than the infinitesimally small risk it really is.
7 Ways Your Siblings May Have Shaped You
By Lindsay Lyon
Ah, siblings: both a blessing and a curse. Approximately 80 percent of Americans have at least one brother or sister; in fact, kids today are more likely to grow up with a sibling than a father, experts say. What's more, the sibling relationship is the longest relationship that most people will have in their lives.
Mom Just Wants a Little Facebook Time
By Ana Veciana-Suarez
I have ruined Facebook for my children. Or so they say. See, any time parents sign up for something -- MySpace, Twitter, YouTube, texting -- the level of it-ness sinks like a deep sea diver in leaded boots. So as payback my kids have refused my numerous attempts to friend them
Latest Arrival Has the Family All A-Twitter
By Ana Veciana-Suarez
I can only think of the wonders my littlest darling will see, and seven hours in the waiting room offered a pretty good preview. The world, or at least the immediate family and circle of friends, was alerted to her impending arrival by dawn. From the hospital bed, in between contractions, the mother-to-be texted her four brothers, her cousins and friends.
High School Party Season: Dangerous Time for Kids
By Ana Veciana-Suarez
Alcohol -- beer usually, but straight shots, too -- is our high schoolers' drug of choice. Chugging until you stagger is especially commonplace as the academic year winds down and the freedom of summer beckons.
This is scary, and frustrating, and a painful reminder of parental impotency. Even if your child doesn't drink, he / she may be unlucky enough -- heck, foolish enough -- to be in the same car, the same room, the same road as someone else's drunk kid.
College Graduates Get Lesson in Hard Economic Times
By Ana Veciana-Suarez
A college diploma guaranteed a comfortable foothold in the American Dream. But this year's graduates find themselves in the worst economy their generation has known, and what should be a time of celebration has morphed into a bout of full-blown anxiety
5 Nutrition Facts About Milk & Healthy Kids
By Kerry Hannon
Here are five things you should know about your kids and milk.
Brain-building Strategies for Parents
Mental and physical exercises, as well as brain-enhancing nutrition, can aid parents in nurturing their children�s natural abilities. Parents should keep some important things in mind when choosing activities and foods to help build children�s brainpower.
Moms: Bond With Baby while Keeping Healthy in the Great Outdoors
Fresh air, open space and a natural atmosphere provide an ideal setting for moms to bond with their babies and also to stay active. After all, who knows how to multi-task better than moms?
Parents: Make Time for Healthy Choices
Between soccer practice, piano lessons and homework, more and more parents are discovering that it can be hard to balance a healthy life with a busy one. Health care professionals, however, are discovering that nutrition- and activity-based habits, when developed early, can make a positive long-term impact.
Parenting: Turning the Page on Tradition?
Reading to your children more often can improve reading skills, math abilities and more.
Parenting: Relate to Your Child With These Easy Tips
If you're part of the working world and also have children, there's a good chance you aren't satisfied with the time that you get to spend with them. Your heart may be in the right place, but hectic schedules can leave little time to stop what you're doing in order to talk to your kids and truly connect with them.
Parenting: Keeping Kids Safe in a Web-Savvy World
In today's age of technology, keeping children safe on the Internet is a must. If you came across an instant message conversation your child was having on your computer and discovered the acronym "PAW," would you know what to make of it?
Parenting: Stay Connected With Your Children. Show Them You Care in Three Easy Ways
When good communication is diminished, parents struggle to find ways to play a more significant role in their children's lives. The good news is that help isn't far away. Here are three ways to "stay connected" with your kids before they grow up too fast.
Parenting: Technology Helps Families Make Time for Togetherness
With the help of technology, families can take control of their hectic schedules and free up more time for togetherness.
Parenting: Tips to Build Reading Success
Children have limitless imaginations. They may dream of time travel and seeing prehistoric creatures up close. Perhaps they want to become mysterious sorcerers who cast binding spells. Parents can easily accommodate these whimsical wishes by encouraging their children to read.
Parenting: Make a Connection With Your Teen
Talking with teenagers about their health isn't always a parent's or a teen's favorite conversation. But parents have more influence on their teen's health than they think, according to researchers with the Prevention Research Centers (PRC) network.
Joan Lunden Encourages Families to Cook up Some Conversation at Dinner Time
A nationwide survey conducted confirms the family dinner is alive and well - in fact, 80 percent of families surveyed reported eating dinner together at least five times each week. However, for three out of four American families, the focus is likely to be on the television rather than on talking to each other.
Parenting Quiz: Do you have a case of parental burnout?
Parenting Quiz: Do you have a case of parental burnout? originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Friday, March 12th, 2010 at 05:31:21.
Parents of newborns who do not sleep through the night are not the only parents who need a break and/or time to get away from it all. Parents of teens who are busting into independence, dating, driving and have hectic schedules need to be aware that these stressors will have an effect on how they are feeling. Take our quiz to see if you are dealing with a case of parental burnout.
Saving Money Tips For Hair and Nail Care
Asking our parenting community: Do you have more money saving tips? Please share your tips and advice in the comments area.
Follow the About.com Parenting & Family's Thrifty Thursday: Saving Money Tips For Hair and Nail Care originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Thursday, March 11th, 2010 at 05:00:44.
Aside from getting a haircut, having your teen's hair or nails done at a salon is an expense many families are forgoing in these tough economic times. But that doesn't mean you or your teen have to forgo looking good.
Teen Very Angry Over Divorce
Teen Very Angry Over Divorce originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Tuesday, March 9th, 2010 at 08:35:55.
A mom on our forum seeks advice: I am in the middle of getting divorced. My husband left 2 1/2 years ago because he wanted his "freedom"...I have 3 children. My daughter was just turning 13 when he left. She is now 15 and is still as angry as she was when he left. At first she would visit him every other weekend and stay with him, but that ended after about 3 months. At that time she got increasingly angry and refused to speak to him or see him. He blamed me for influencing her and "changing her feelings." Read more...
Spring Activities for Teens - Week One
Spring Activities for Teens - Week One originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Monday, March 8th, 2010 at 07:01:36.
These spring activities for teens can be done individually, with friends or with the whole family. Each week has four different types of teen activities for spring: Make This (Recipe), Craft This, Learn How and Get Out and Go! Each activity idea is fun for your teen.
Parents Don't Like Their Son's Girlfriend
We have expressed our concerns to our son that she will hurt him or cause trouble for him however he says she is with him now and people change.
We have tried to be tolerant and calm and would not try to tell him that he cannot see her however my husband (his Dad)now does not want her name mentioned and does not want her in our house. This is causing a lot of friction between my son and his dad whom he has always had a very close relationship with. I'm afraid that this is just more likely to make my son pull away from his family and further into the arms of his girlfriend. His girlfriends parents feel my son is a good influence on their daughter and are delighted with him. Can anyone give me some good advice, I feel torn between my son and my husband?
Denise's thoughts: I would try talking with him, if you can keep your feelings in check. An honest heart-to-heart. Letting him know why you are worried, but telling him that you respect his decisions. Then back off, because as long as you and your husband are the 'bad guys' the more she can hold on to him. If you remove yourself as the problem, he may begin to she her antics as not something he wants to deal with.
Asking our parenting community: Have you always liked your teen's dates? With or without reason? Please share your advice and experiences in our comments area. Parents Don't Like Their Son's Girlfriend originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Friday, March 5th, 2010 at 08:00:11.
A mom on the forum seeks advice: My 17-year-old son is dating a 15-year-old girl. He is completely besotted with her, has lost interest in his hobbies and his friends and spends most of his time with her or on the phone to her. She is quite unlike the nice girls he has previously dated. She has on her own account already had sex with 8 boys, her own father says she is a compulsive liar and recently accused her of stealing money from the home.He has had to get up at 3.30 am last week to pick her up from the town center where she had been out drinking as she didn't want her parents to know she had been out.
Quiz: How confident is your teen? Find out now!
Quiz: How confident is your teen? Find out now! originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Thursday, March 4th, 2010 at 10:15:28.
Does your teen have a 'can-do' attitude or do they hide at the thought of something new? Knowing this will tell you if your teen has the confidence they need to get the most out of their adolescence. Try our simple ten question true or false quiz about teen confidence and follow up with our resources on building your teen's confidence. Take the quiz.
Money Saving Tips for Reading Teens
Having a reader like this means that frugal parents need to get savvy when obtaining good books that our teens want to read. Here are three money-saving ideas:
1.) I have found the PaperbackSwap.com site and I'm loving the idea for my teen daughter and myself. You post books that you would like to swap out and you earn credits by swapping them. Then you use your credits to 'order' books you want to read from others. The only cost associated with the swap is the cost of mailing the book. My only caution is that you will need to watch who your teen is swapping with and who sends them books as it is an online community.
2.) Teens can get together and make suggestions for books to be purchased at their local library. They can even do a book drive and earn some money towards their list of suggested books. This is a great way to do some volunteer community service and get a few more books on the library's shelves that teens like to read.
3.) Swap books with friends. Get a group of friends who like to read and do a circular swap where a book goes from one person to the next until it gets around the to everyone and back to its owner.
More Money Saving Ideas: Save Money On Your Teen's Shoes | Saving Money: Know What Is in Your Teen's Closet
Asking our parenting community: Do you have more money saving tips for reading teens? Please share your tips and advice in the comments area.
Follow the About.com Parenting & Family's Thrifty Thursday: Money Saving Tips for Reading Teens originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Thursday, March 4th, 2010 at 05:00:21.
I have a confession to make: I have a reader in my home and I am slowly going broke buying books. Yes, she goes to our local library and has read the books on their shelves - it is a small library. Yes, she goes to her school library - she has read most of what is there. She is currently working through her English teacher's personal library and has joined a book club with that teacher.
How To Be a Chaperone at the Prom
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How To Be a Chaperone at the Prom originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010 at 06:30:10.
Prom committees are looking for adult volunteers for help with this year's prom. You may want to offer to help with set up/take down, securing rentals or chaperoning. Give your teen's high school a call and find out which teacher is the prom adviser. Then give him/her a call to offer your services.
Work This Teen Craft Up Quickly - Pesonalized No Sew Pillow
This personalize teen craft is made from an old pair of blue jeans. I think it may turn out to be the best bang for your budget large youth group craft that I have ever done. And of course, it's also perfect to do with one teen who has grown out of her favorite jeans. You just can't lose with this teen craft.
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Work This Teen Craft Up Quickly - Pesonalized No Sew Pillow originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Monday, March 1st, 2010 at 06:19:26.
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14-Year-Old Girl Wants to Date 18-Year-Old Boy
Advice from cstone360: "Your concerns on both sides are very valid. Perhaps a lesser of two evils, however undesirable, may be ideal. Instead of risking her running of and possibly getting pregnant, perhaps say she can see him but only when you're around - come over for dinner, studying, hanging out while you're there and visible at all times. Studying in a common room (living room, etc). if they wish to go to a movie or dinner - drive them and accompany them, never leaving them out of your sight. Undesirable but the lesser of two evils. He may grow wary of mom always being around and leave."
Denise's thoughts: I agree with cstone360. The mom could try and forbid it, but has no way of doing what she would need to do to enforce it. Allow the dating when you can chaperon. Keep lines of communication open with your daughter, talking to her often about sex, love, family values and teen pregnancy.
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Asking our parenting community: Do you agree, disagree or think it isn't any big deal? Please share your thoughts, advice and experiences in the comments area. 14-Year-Old Girl Wants to Date 18-Year-Old Boy originally appeared on About.com Parenting of Adolescents on Friday, February 26th, 2010 at 06:32:08.
A mom on our forum seeks advice: "My 14 year old daughter met this boy (18 years old) through mutual friends. She is infatuated with him and says she loves him. He says he loves her too. She has told him there will be no sexual activity between them and she says he understands that??? My feeling is NO!NO!NO! I don't want he to date him or any (over her age) boy. Should I say NO and risk her sneaking around and doing it. How should I handle this? I am a single mom. Her father hardly has any time for her."
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Stop by here every Saturday for a family activity, a site for the kids, a shopping site, a site offering humor or inspiration about parenting children with special needs, and a site that's just silly or fun, all designed to get you through your weekend with kids amused and spirits intact. Today's list: Subscribe to My Newsletter | Join Me on Twitter Egg Decorating, Power Typing, and More Fun Things to Do originally appeared on About.com Parenting Special Needs on Saturday, March 13th, 2010 at 08:00:38.
An Inclusion Plan for the Olympics and Paralympics
It's not exactly mainstreaming -- the athletes with disabilities would compete in their own events, and at different venues -- but there'd be good opportunities for athletes of all abilities to socialize, eat together, room together, share the excitement of world competition together, and maybe get a little camera time together, too. Steadward tells the Vancouver Sun that the winter games offers the best opportunity for such an inclusion exercise, since there are fewer athletes and events to deal with. Would you like to see the Winter Olympics and Paralympics happen at the same time? Do you think that would help raise attention for the Paralympics, or would it just get lost in the shuffle? Share your thoughts in the comments, and don't forget to watch the opening ceremonies tonight at 6:00 p.m. Pacific Time on ParalympicSport.TV. Photo of Olympics and Paralympics medals by Jeff Vinnic/Getty Images Subscribe to My Newsletter | Join Me on Twitter An Inclusion Plan for the Olympics and Paralympics originally appeared on About.com Parenting Special Needs on Friday, March 12th, 2010 at 18:00:05.
Here's a novel idea for getting more attention for the Paralympics: Hold it at the same time as the Olympics, instead of trailing along a few weeks later when everyone's mostly gone home. According to a post on Disability Scoop, "Dr. Robert Steadward, one of the founders of the international Paralympic organizing body, says it's time for the two events to occur concurrently to share resources and exposure, while also furthering inclusion of people with disabilities."
Comfort for the Overwhelmed
One of the meditations in A Different Dream for My Child, this week's featured book for the Harried Parent's Book Club, focuses on ways to "Stay in the Day" and take a true measure of what you can and can't handle. Writes author Jolene Philo: "Over the years I have learned something I wish I'd known when my son was ill, when every single day held an unexpected adventure. As I matured, I learned to make a plan, but then let it go when God's agenda for the day was different from mine." Read the full book excerpt "Stay in the Day," and then share your ways of coping with the stress of special-needs parenting. Cover image courtesy of Discovery House Subscribe to My Newsletter | Join Me on Twitter Comfort for the Overwhelmed originally appeared on About.com Parenting Special Needs on Friday, March 12th, 2010 at 15:59:18.
Feeling besieged by worries over your child's future? Head spinning from an endless parade of appointments and illnesses and diagnoses and setbacks and strategies? Sometimes it's hard to enjoy your child in the moment when all you can think about is the next scary confusing thing looming down the line.
This Week in Comments: Special-Needs TV
What's on your mind today? Speak out in the comments below, or add your opinion to the posts above. Photo by Stephen Dunn/Getty Images Subscribe to My Newsletter | Join Me on Twitter This Week in Comments: Special-Needs TV originally appeared on About.com Parenting Special Needs on Friday, March 12th, 2010 at 11:00:41.
Here's a list of posts that have received one or more comments over the past week:
Worship Service Success Is Trial and Error
"It's a matter of finding out which works best for your child and your family, keeping in mind that what worked for one week, may need a different strategy for the next! I think it's always trial and error for these situations and you have to just go with the flow for that particular day. Once other members of the parish get to know your child, they may lend a helping hand." Do you have some good worship advice? Help other families make their peace. Subscribe to My Newsletter | Join Me on Twitter Worship Service Success Is Trial and Error originally appeared on About.com Parenting Special Needs on Friday, March 12th, 2010 at 08:00:52.
I asked you to share your tips and tricks for getting a child with special needs through a church service, something that's of particular concern for a lot of us as Easter approaches, and reader Lisa suggested that families just "go with the flow":
Where to Find Paralympics Coverage, Such As It Is
Wait, what's that? None of that is happening in Vancouver? Only in our dreams? Sigh. Alas, coverage of the Paralympics is nowhere near as vast or as live as the Olympics. However, there's a smattering of showings you can follow -- live online, taped on TV -- and the best way to demonstrate that we'd like more, please, is to heavily view what we've got. Here are some places you can follow the action: Will you be following the Paralympics with your child? If you've found a good way to watch, share it in the comments. Photo of US skier Christopher Young praciticing during a training run for the Men's Downhill Sitting by Ezra Shaw/Getty Images Subscribe to My Newsletter | Join Me on Twitter Where to Find Paralympics Coverage, Such As It Is originally appeared on About.com Parenting Special Needs on Thursday, March 11th, 2010 at 17:00:27.
Tomorrow night, the 2010 Vancouver Winter Paralympics has its opening ceremony, and as with the Olympics a few weeks ago, we'll be plunged into hours upon hours of televised coverage; experts will expound on the fine points of wheelchair curling, Bob Costas will sit in front of the fire introducing alpine and cross-country skiing events and explaining the equipment involved, we'll be treated to inspirational portraits of the various athletes, and as nations we will gather around TV sets to watch live games of ice sledge hockey ...
Wheelchair-Using Child Actor Sought for NBC Pilot
A February 9 item in The Hollywood Reporter describes a pilot that is "in the vein of 'Curb Your Enthusiasm' and [stars] Reiser in a show based on his real-life family life," which would presumably be the pilot the casting notice is for. But wait -- does this mean that, in real life, Reiser has a child who uses a wheelchair? According to IMDb, the actor does have a son around the right age, but I haven't been able to find anything online as to whether he has a disability. Reiser is a supporter of the Wampler Foundation, which provides wilderness experiences for children with disabilities, so that may have inspired the character if there's no true-life connection. UPDATE: In the comments, Christine confirms that Reiser does have a son who uses a wheelchair. So if this pilot does get on the schedule and Parenthood sticks around, NBC will have two shows with child characters with special needs written by fathers of children with special needs. Nice trend. If you have any more info about the pilot or Reiser's reason for creating this character, please share in the comments. And if you've got the right kid for the part, check out that casting call, which involves sending in a tape of your child performing a scene. It would be great if they could actually give a young wheelchair-user the part instead of getting a non-disabled child actor to fake it. Photo by Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images Subscribe to My Newsletter | Join Me on Twitter Wheelchair-Using Child Actor Sought for NBC Pilot originally appeared on About.com Parenting Special Needs on Thursday, March 11th, 2010 at 13:00:57.
If you've been unhappy with a character who uses a wheelchair being played by an actor who doesn't on Glee, here's some promising news: An open online casting call has gone out for a child actor who uses a wheelchair to play the son of Paul Reiser (pictured) in a pilot for NBC. The casting call, seeking performers age 10-13, describes the character as "sweet, funny, really smart and upbeat. He loves sports, music, and everyone he meets -- especially adults. Inquisitive and with a mind like a steel trap, he remembers everything -- which can be good or bad! He can easily get anxious and sometimes gets a bit obsessively focused on things. And oh, he has used a wheelchair since birth." Not quite sure how you use a wheelchair at birth, but I applaud the intention.
Parenthood Needs a PSA
A commenter on one of my earlier posts takes the show to task for not letting viewers know where they can get more information on Asperger syndrome; viewers who suspect their child might be like the newly diagnosed Max are left without even a clue as to how to spell it. Seems to me this would be a good opportunity for one of NBC's "The More You Know" PSAs, maybe with Peter Krause (pictured), who plays Max's dad, giving a quick description of the diagnosis and a place to go online for more information. If Parenthood left you wanting to know more about Asperger syndrome, a good place to start is my resource page on the diagnosis. You'll find lots of sites to visit for more information, from straightforward medical sites to ones that focus on the experiences of family members or individuals with AS. Do you know of a great resource parents should be sure to check out? Share it on the Readers Respond page. For those who missed the episode, you can watch it online on Hulu or NBC.com, or read the recap from About.com Stay-at-Home-Moms guide Apryl Duncan. Photo by Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images Subscribe to My Newsletter | Join Me on Twitter Parenthood Needs a PSA originally appeared on About.com Parenting Special Needs on Thursday, March 11th, 2010 at 11:00:31.
I've still got this week's Parenthood waiting on my DVR to be watched, but apparently a lot of people did view it and were interested enough in its Asperger syndrome plotline to google that diagnosis. Well, or something like it: According to a post on Disability Scoop, among the top Google searches after the episode aired Tuesday night were "Asperger's disease" and "Assburgers syndrome." Maybe searchers for the latter are viewers of NBC's Community, which got some snickers out of that pronunciation a while back.
What's at the Top of Your Wish List?
"I would wish for a car. Going to and school and daycare with a two-year-old who doesn't walk is killer on the back. I just want a cheapo car to take me where I need to go so we don't have to wake up so early. And maybe a back massage." What do you wish for? Add to the list. Subscribe to My Newsletter | Join Me on Twitter What's at the Top of Your Wish List? originally appeared on About.com Parenting Special Needs on Thursday, March 11th, 2010 at 08:00:48.I asked you to share your special-needs wish list, and reader Willow had a practical request:
Reece's Rainbow Looking for "21.3.10 Warriors"
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March 21 is World Down Syndrome Day, and the adoption ministry Reece's Rainbow is using that as an opportunity to raise awareness of its program promoting the international adoption of children with Down syndrome. You can participate by doing something as simple as adding the logo to your blog or Facebook profile; or get more involved by becoming a "21.3.10 Warrior" and sponsoring one of those waiting kids, raising funds for a grant to be used toward that little one's adoption. Helping a child with Down syndrome find his or her way to a forever family sounds like a pretty good way to celebrate World Down Syndrome Day. What will you be doing to mark that occasion?
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When a Teacher Bullies a Student
My third grader knows the rules of conduct in school regarding bullying language and behavior: treat others with respect and kindness, the way you would like to be treated. Most schools try to instill similar teachings at schools, but a recent news story begs the question: What if the teacher is the bully? A North Carolina middle school teacher reportedly wrote the word "loser" on a student's work, and has engaged in other bullying behavior. According to the mother of the 11-year-old girl who received the graded assignment, the teacher first wrote the word on her daughter's work back in November. When the mother complained, it stopped. Then a few weeks ago, another assignment came home with the word "loser" written on it again and underlined twice. This time, the mom called the assistant superintendent and met with the principal and the teacher. The teacher apologized and explained (I think rather lamely) that this was his way of joking with his students. The mom has called the teacher's behavior unacceptable and has had her daughter removed from his class.
In my opinion, a joke is only funny if the other person's laughing. In this case, the young girl was reportedly upset by the teacher's behavior. I'm all for teachers building good relationships with their students, but is calling a child a loser really the best that an educator can do? And if the person you're "joking with" is upset by your words and actions, then you're doing something wrong. A third grader -- heck, a preschooler for that matter -- would know something like that. When a Teacher Bullies a Student originally appeared on About.com Parenting School Age Children on Saturday, March 13th, 2010 at 20:00:31.
Spring Forward
into Less Sleep!
Sunday is Daylight Savings Time, which means we all get an hour less of sleep. I don't know about you, but as a busy parent who doesn't get nearly enough shut-eye, I'm very likely to feel the effects of this time change for a while, just as I do every year. I'm already dreading getting myself and my son out of bed on Monday to get ready for school. To offset the effects of the time change, I'm going to rely on some good bedtime habits to make sure we get to bed a bit earlier than usual. And we're certainly going to count on some time-saving morning routines to help us get out the door in time. What are some strategies you and your family turn to in order to get acclimated to the time change? Do you feel the effects of the time change, or is it a non-issue in your household? Spring Forward
into Less Sleep! originally appeared on About.com Parenting School Age Children on Saturday, March 13th, 2010 at 12:57:01.
Take Back Your Family Weekends!
Have you ever looked up on a Sunday afternoon and wondered where the weekend went? Between running errands and shuttling kids to and from activities and birthday parties, many parents I know say they rarely get a chance to enjoy family weekend time with their kids. As we head into warmer weather and the winding down of the school year, try a few smart, easy strategies to make over your family weekends, such as consolidating errands and tucking chore touch-ups here and there into weekdays. With a little streamlining and planning ahead, you'll be able to spend more of your family weekend time having fun together. Take Back Your Family Weekends! originally appeared on About.com Parenting School Age Children on Saturday, March 13th, 2010 at 01:21:27.
Money Can Buy Happiness -- Sometimes
If you're thinking about putting off that family vacation to buy a new flat screen, you might want to reconsider your priorities. What you choose to spend your money on can affect how happy you are in the long run, says a new study from Cornell University. Spending your money on things like vacations and massages -- or in other words, things that you experience -- can lead to happiness, whereas purchasing material items such as a TV or other electronics may yield temporary satisfaction but can make people feel less happy down the road. Researchers found that consumers tended to rethink their material purchases by comparing what they bought to what others purchased or regretting missed deals or discounts. People who spent their money on trips or services or other experiences, on the other hand, were less likely to second guess their choices. Money Can Buy Happiness -- Sometimes originally appeared on About.com Parenting School Age Children on Monday, March 8th, 2010 at 12:21:21.
Fewer Kids are Being Bullied
The number of kids who are being bullied is going down, says a new study from the University of New Hampshire's Crimes Against Children Research Center. Researchers conducted two surveys of children between the ages of 2 to 17. The first survey, of 2,030 children, was conducted in 2003. The second, which examined 4,046 children, was conducted in 2008. Children were asked questions about various types of violence or victimization they might have experienced. The study found that the number of kids who said they'd experienced physical bullying decreased from almost 22 percent in 2003 to nearly 15 percent in 2008. Researchers believe that one reason behind the trend might be the boost that anti-bullying programs received after tragedies such as the 1999 Columbine massacre. But even as rates of physical bullying may be on the decline, other child safety experts say cyberbullying is a growing problem. According to the National Crime Prevention Council (NCPC), more than 43 percent of teenagers reported that they'd been the victims of cyberbullying in a recent survery. One thing we can do as parents of grade-schoolers is instill the message in our children that they can talk to us if they experience any form of bullying. (The NCPC survey also found that only 10 percent of those teens who'd experienced cyberbullying actually told their parents.) That's one of the best ways we can help protect our kids against bullying as we enter the preteen and teen years ahead. Fewer Kids are Being Bullied originally appeared on About.com Parenting School Age Children on Monday, March 8th, 2010 at 12:10:25.
Does Your Grade-Schooler Eat Snacks?
My third grader generally loves snacks. I say "generally" because he sometimes goes through periods when he scarfs down snacks like a linebacker and then just as suddenly goes through phases when he decides that he doesn't feel like having anything before dinner. His fluctuating appetite used to worry me when he was younger and I was a new mom. But now that he's older -- and I've met enough parents over the years who say their kids do the same thing -- I realize that the overall balance of what he eats is what matters, not what he eats at one particular meal. As for snacks, I've learned to take an equally relaxed attitude. If he's hungry and wants it, he can have it; if not, we skip it. A new study has targeted snacking as a possible contributor to our nation's childhood obesity problem. According to the study by researchers at the University of Carolina at Chapel Hill, kids today are snacking more than they did a few decades ago. Researchers found that between 1977 and 2006, the number of calories kids consumed from snacks increased from an average of 168 calories a day to a whopping 568 calories a day. The number of kids who said they ate snacks between meals also rose dramatically, from 74 percent when the survey was done in 1977 to 1978 to an almost universal 98 percent in 2003 to 2006. The study also found that kids today are less likely to drink milk or eat fresh fruits and vegetables at snack time. Instead, they are more likely to have sweetened beverages such as juices and sports drinks and cake, cookies, or other desserts for their snacks. Couple that with the rising rates of media consumption among kids -- which means a lot of kids are sitting around rather than exercising -- and voila! You've got a recipe for childhood obesity. I personally don't think snacking in and of itself is a major problem. In fact, many people lose weight by snacking more often, eating smaller portions at mealtime, and exercising. The key to healthy eating in kids and adults can certainly include snacks, especially if choices include more fresh fruits and veggies and fewer high-sugar, high-fat foods. There's a big difference between regularly eating, say, a bag of potato chips with a can of soda after school and snacking on healthy choices such as pita bread with hummus or a bowl of grapes, which are my son's favorites. So if your child is ravenous after school and wants to eat something, by all means give her something to snack on. Just make sure it's usually healthy, and don't pressure her to clean her plate at dinner if she's still full from her snack. Does Your Grade-Schooler Eat Snacks? originally appeared on About.com Parenting School Age Children on Sunday, March 7th, 2010 at 14:43:03.
Thrifty Thursdays: Got Any Spare Change?
What do you do with your spare change? I've made a habit of gathering up my change and putting it straight into my son's piggy bank. This, in addition to his allowance for doing chores around the house, has added up to hundreds of dollars a year for my little boy. Not bad for someone who's not even 9 yet. When the piggy bank gets full, we empty out the change and sort it together. We get coin wrappers from the bank and count out the money together. When he was little, this was a great way to teach him about different coins; now that he's older, he can actually count out the money. You can think of other fun things to do with your spare change. For instance, your family can have a communal piggy bank into which you can all drop your spare change. Then, when it gets full, everyone can vote on ways you can spend the money, such as putting it toward a family vacation or spending it on a fun night at the movies. Instilling this daily habit can teach your kids about saving, money management and cooperation, all in one! More Thrifty Thursdays Blogs:
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Wash Your Bagged Salad
Do you buy pre-packaged salad greens? If so, you may want to read this recent report from Consumer Reports, which found that some of those so-called "pre-washed" bagged salads contained bacteria that are common indicators of poor sanitation and -- ugh -- fecal contamination. The level of bacteria varied from bag to bag, even within the same brands; the brands tested were major labels such as Dole, Earthbound Farm Organic, and Fresh Express, as well as local and store brands. There was also no difference found in bacteria levels between organic and conventional salads. As a busy mom, I've certainly reached for the bag of ready-mix salad greens. And in some cases, pre-bagged is the only option I have if I want to buy an assortment of baby lettuces that are more interesting than a head of romaine or iceberg lettuce. But as tempting as it may be to just dump the bag of lettuce into a salad bowl, I'm now going to make sure I wash it thoroughly before serving it to my family. (It won't remove all the bacteria, but it'll help reduce what's there and help get rid of any soil.) Researchers also suggest buying the bag that's labeled as far from the "use by" date as possible. Wash Your Bagged Salad originally appeared on About.com Parenting School Age Children on Monday, March 1st, 2010 at 10:23:44.
Have You Thought about Summer Camp Yet?
It may seem a bit far off considering how much many parts of the country have been hit with snowstorms and wintry weather, but now's the time many parents are thinking about summer camp. Have you considered where your child will go? If you're thinking about choosing a new summer camp, check out these insider tips on how to find the best summer camp for your child. And while you're thinking of all the fun activities your child will be engaging in at camp, be sure to remember to schedule some do-nothing time. That, after all, is a very important part of what being a kid in the summer is all about. Have You Thought about Summer Camp Yet? originally appeared on About.com Parenting School Age Children on Monday, March 1st, 2010 at 09:54:15.
Feeling Walloped by Winter?
I can't tell you how many parents I've spoken to who have had it with winter. As many parts of the country continue to shovel out from under the cold, white mess (or in our case in New York City, the now grayish to black mounds of once-white snow), many parents are crying "Enough!" Then there are the sick days as those oh-so-lovely viruses make their ways around the classrooms. Between snow days, sick days, and a few days for holidays in the past few weeks, I think my son was at home more than he was at school. (He finally got better this weekend and is back in school today, and the weather cooperated by giving us a respite from the snow.) If you're like me and have been juggling work, snow days and a sick child, take comfort in the fact that you aren't alone. Remind yourself that spring is just a few weeks away, and try to enjoy what's left of winter. Think of some fun things to do with your kids, both indoors and out. Try to make the best of what's left of the cold and snow, such as going sledding with your kids (it can be fun to watch them as they slide down the hills, whooping with delight over and over again; and it can be even more fun to go down the hill with them!). There are few things better in life than snuggling and reading with your child under the cozy covers on a cold winter's day or night, so enjoy it now while you can! Feeling Walloped by Winter? originally appeared on About.com Parenting School Age Children on Sunday, February 28th, 2010 at 09:41:05.
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Twins of the Week: Brianna and Bailey
Think spring! Twin sisters, Brianna and Bailey, were 2 1/2 years old in this picture from Easter 2009. The girls are identical twins. Twins of the Week: Brianna and Bailey originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010 at 11:46:24.
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10 for '10: Ten Best Baby Gifts for Multiples
In 2010, I'll be posting weekly "Ten for '10" features, top 10 lists about twins and multiples. This week, we look at baby gifts for twins and multiples. There's no way around it; parents of multiples need a lot of stuff to assist in their care, and to make life a little easier. However, it has to be the right stuff; some things are better off in quantity, while others demand quality. Here are ten gift suggestions that would be appreciated by most new parents of twins, triplets or more. 10 for '10: Ten Best Baby Gifts for Multiples originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010 at 11:42:12.
Previous Ten for '10 Features:
10 Ways to Manage Multiples' Messes
10 Tips for Keeping Your Family Healthy
10 Things NOT to Do When You're Pregnant with Twins
10 Double Jogger Strollers for Twins
10 Celebrities with a Secret Twin
10 for '10: Ten Ways to Manage Multiples' Messes
In 2010, I'll be posting weekly "Ten for '10" features, top 10 lists about twins and multiples. This week, check out these ten strategies for managing multiples' messes. It is amazing how even the most well-organized home can deteriorate into destruction when twins or triplets take over. Every age and stage of childhood is accompanied by "stuff" that accumulates throughout the house, whether it is baby equipment, toys, school supplies or clothing. Try these ten strategies to help you manage the mess. 10 for '10: Ten Ways to Manage Multiples' Messes originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010 at 01:10:11.
Previous Ten for '10 Features:
10 Tips for Keeping Your Family Healthy
10 Things NOT to Do When You're Pregnant with Twins
10 Double Jogger Strollers for Twins
10 Celebrities with a Secret Twin
10 Activities for Warm Winter Fun
Is Having Twins the Same as Having Two Children Close in Age?
Parents of twins hear it all the time ... "Oh, I had my kids thirteen months apart. It was just like having twins." Do you agree with this statement? Take this Parent's Poll, and then share your thoughts by clicking on Comments. Is Having Twins the Same as Having Two Children Close in Age? originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Monday, March 1st, 2010 at 01:46:36.
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Preemie Twins Fare Better than Singletons
A recent study suggests that very premature twins (those born between 28 and 31 weeks) were less likely to die in the first few weeks after birth and also less likely to need oxygen as compared to singletons at the same stage. However, that was not the case for babies considered extremely premature -- born prior to 27 weeks. Twins in that category were more susceptible to death and complications such as serious brain bleeds. The risk was greatest for same-sex twins with a size discordance, where their birth weights differed by more than fifteen percent. It's encouraging news for multiples, who have an increased risk of premature birth. More than half are born prior to 36 weeks, and an informal poll on this site indicates that 18% of families would fall into the extremely premature category of babies born prior to 28 weeks. More Resources: Preemie Twins Fare Better than Singletons originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Thursday, February 25th, 2010 at 09:26:00.
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Vote for Your Favorite Twins Books
There's the Emmy's, the Grammy's, the Golden Globes and the Oscars. Now meet the DUBBEs!! Double Up Books, a bookstore for books about twins and multiples, is sponsoring the 1st Annual DUBBE Book Awards. (DUBBE stands for "Double Up Books Book Excellence" and is pronounced like "dub-be.") You can vote for your favorite books in nine categories, and help to highlight the ones that are most helpful, most inspirational, or funniest. Take a moment to vote for the DUBBEs, and for more information on the nominated books, browse my online bookshelf. Vote for Your Favorite Twins Books originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Monday, February 22nd, 2010 at 10:05:02.
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Twins in the Winter Olympics
Are you enjoying the winter Olympics? I find them fascinating. There are so many different sports events, many that I had never heard of before. Skeleton? Curling? Short Track? Halfpipe? I'm learning a lot! As in the summer Olympics the winter athletes have some interesting twin connections. Lanny Barnes is a member of the U.S. biathlon team, a sport which combines cross-country skiing and shooting. Her identical twin sister, Tracy Barnes, narrowly missed making the 2010 team due to weather and schedule inconsistencies that prevented her from competing in a qualifying event. Both competed in the 2006 games in Torino. Daron Rahlves is a dad of two-year-old boy/girl twins named Miley and Dreyson. He is also a three-time Olympian in alpine skiing, but in 2010 he competes in ski cross, which along with aerials and moguls comprises the sport of freestyle skiing. In ski cross, a group of skiers race a course of bumps and turns. It's a combination of skiing and motorbike "motorcross" racing, and the event makes its debut at the 2010 Vancouver Olympics. It sounds quite daring; I'm sure Rahlves' adventurous spirit will serve him well as a dad of twins! Twins know a thing or two about teamwork, and two members of the U.S. women's hockey team bring that teamwork to the ice. At age 19, Jocelyne and Monique Lamoureux are among the youngest members of the hockey team. They grew up playing hockey with four older brothers in North Dakota. After playing one season at the University of Minnesota, the girls will play for the University of North Dakota next year. Twins in the Winter Olympics originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Thursday, February 18th, 2010 at 01:21:54.
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About Skiing for more information on the U.S. ski team
About Hunting/Shooting for more information on the U.S. biathlon team.
Twins of the Week
Emily and Miley are the Twins of the Week! The identical twin girls were nine months old when this picture was taken. Twins of the Week originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Wednesday, February 17th, 2010 at 13:21:12.
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10 for '10: Ten Ideas for Indoor Winter Fun
In 2010, I'll be posting weekly "Ten for '10" features, top 10 lists about twins and multiples. This week, check out these ten (plus!) ideas for warm winter fun indoors. If you've been stuck inside due to winter weather, your multiples might be going a little stir crazy. It's time to get creative and generate some fun indoors. Top Ten Activities for Indoor Fun with Multiples 10 for '10: Ten Ideas for Indoor Winter Fun originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Tuesday, February 16th, 2010 at 01:23:30.
Previous Ten for '10 Features:
10 Things Twins Hate to Hear
10 Nursing Necessities for Breastfeeding Multiples
10 Tips for Keeping Your Family Healthy
10 Things NOT to Do When You're Pregnant with Twins
10 Double Jogger Strollers for Twins
10 Celebrities with a Secret Twin
Parent's Poll: What Do You Do With Your Twins' Clothing After They Outgrow It?
One of the great disadvantages of multiples is an inability to utilize hand-me-downs from sibling to sibling. Since they generally wear the same size clothing in the same season -- except in some cases where twins are different sizes -- parents of twins end up with a double dose of wardrobe that is quickly outgrown. What do you do with all that clothing? Parent's Poll: What Do You Do With Your Twins' Clothing After They Outgrow It? originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Monday, February 15th, 2010 at 01:39:15.
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Wordless Wednesday: Meet Byron
Thanks to Mary Camp for sharing this picture of 21-month-old Byron (and Dad, Jack).
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Wordless Wednesday: Meet Byron originally appeared on About.com Babies & Toddlers on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010 at 09:01:59.
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Get Some Inspiration for Family Dinners from Food Blogs
Often, I turn to food blogs. The food blogs that are my favorites (like the Kitchens, both Steamy and Smitten) lure me with their imagery. I love the macro shots of ingredients and the stunning presentation. But, I often find that most of those recipes are better left for weekends when I have more time, energy and ambition. I still love to gaze at those blogs longingly throughout the week, however, because they inspire me to keep cooking rather than bustin' out the boxed mix.
Most of the food blogs that I find helpful for planning my weeknight meals are those written by other parents who keep it simple and real. Erin Chase at $5 Dinners not only cooks easy meals, but they're easy on the wallet, too. I find a food blog especially helpful when the author talks about the food she's really feeding her family, like over at The Pioneer Woman Cooks. I like it when I can find the best of both worlds in a food blog, like the way Stephanie Gallagher doesn't hesitate to use a pre-made pie crust in this meat pie or quiche, but takes a simple dish like mac and cheese and jazzes it up with some gruyere and asiago cheeses, making it palatable for toddlers and grown-ups alike. Sometimes I learn a little something while I'm on the hunt for recipes, like when I read the What's Cooking Blog. It covers so many food-related bits from improving school lunches to cooking in ways that can help save the planet. And it looks like I can add another bit of cooking inspiration to my feed reader this morning: The folks at Babble have just introduced a new food blog called The Family Kitchen. I really like what I'm seeing so far. Bring on the pizza fingers!
What are your favorite places to find cooking inspiration? What is it about those places that keeps you going back? Get Some Inspiration for Family Dinners from Food Blogs originally appeared on About.com Babies & Toddlers on Monday, March 8th, 2010 at 13:08:35.
Food and I, we have a long, complicated relationship. It became even more complicated when we found out my son is allergic to corn and eggs. I can spend hours at the store reading labels (there is no bold lettered warning for corn, sadly, like there is for egg) and calling companies to learn more about a specific ingredient contained in their foods. I spend a lot of time thinking about and dealing with food. And still, I frequently find I need inspiration when it comes to getting a weeknight meal on the table that doesn't leave me exhausted or take too much time away from my family.
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Wordless Wednesday: Meet Tony
Thanks to Cassie Melvin for sharing this picture of 2-and-a-half-year-old Tony.
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Wordless Wednesday: Meet Tony originally appeared on About.com Babies & Toddlers on Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010 at 08:00:09.
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Parenting Bloggers: Join the March Blog Carnival About St. Patrick's Day
Follow me on Twitter | Become a fan on Facebook Parenting Bloggers: Join the March Blog Carnival About St. Patrick's Day originally appeared on About.com Babies & Toddlers on Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010 at 22:05:44.
Calling all daddy and mommy bloggers (and anyone else who blogs on family issues): There's a new blog carnival slated to go live Monday that will focus on the topic of St. Patrick's Day. Deadlines for submissions will be this Friday, March 5, so fire up the blog and get crackin'. Here are the rules for the carnival and you can learn more about how to send your submission to Baby Clothes Guide Stacie McClintock here.
Wordless Wednesday: 20-Month-Old Ethan
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Wordless Wednesday: 20-Month-Old Ethan originally appeared on About.com Babies & Toddlers on Wednesday, February 24th, 2010 at 10:34:41.
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Parents of Toddlers Should Know CPR
Many parents take childbirth classes and parenting classes before their baby arrives, but very few of these courses include instruction on how to perform CPR on an infant or child. I find this surprising since it's one of those must-ask questions on the list for babysitters and child care providers. I mean, nobody wants to leave their children with someone who couldn't save their lives if it came down to it... but if you don't know CPR yourself, that's what you're doing every day, right? I've been certified several times before and I've had to use it twice. Still, it's not like riding a bike -- at least not for me. I kept my certification up when it was necessary for my work, but I've let it slide in recent years. The other day, it dawned on me that I couldn't exactly remember how many rescue breaths and compressions were for infants and children versus adults. I'm going to take another class next month. If you have never taken a class or need a refresher, I hope you'll do the same. Related:
Parents of Toddlers Should Know CPR originally appeared on About.com Babies & Toddlers on Sunday, February 21st, 2010 at 12:00:57.
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Free Pancakes for a Good Cause... or Just Stay Home and Make 'Em Yourself
A lot of folks turn out for this, so if you're heading out with toddlers in tow, be forewarned. It can be a long line and big crowds. And, just like I don't need a special day to make pancakes, the Children's Miracle Network doesn't need a special day to receive your donation. They'll take it any day you're willing to give it.
Need some inspiration for your homegrown pancake day celebration? Give these toddler-friendly pancake recipes a try. Whether you make them at home or eat 'em at IHOP, your toddler will enjoy. Free Pancakes for a Good Cause... or Just Stay Home and Make 'Em Yourself originally appeared on About.com Babies & Toddlers on Friday, February 19th, 2010 at 21:24:49.
Tuesday is National Pancake Day. I can tell you with 100% certainty what I'm going to be doing: standing in my kitchen making pancakes. I don't need a special day. If you don't plan on standing over a hot griddle, however, you have options, folks. IHOP is giving away free pancakes from 7 a.m. until 10 a.m. and in return, they're hoping you'll make a donation while you're there to benefit the Children's Miracle Network.
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Wordless Wednesday: Bathtime for Nadija and Katya
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Toddler Parenting Books
Toddler Parenting Books originally appeared on About.com Babies & Toddlers on Saturday, February 13th, 2010 at 22:50:36.
Making the transition from infancy to toddlerhood is a time filled with new and exciting challenges for you and your child. Learn how to meet those challenges with these books on toddler care. Have a parenting book that you just can't live without? Share your favorites with other parents by leaving a comment.
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Wordless Wednesday: 20-Month-Old Ashley
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It's Time to Read, America!
Dr. Seuss isnt just for beginning readers. Oh, the Place Youll Go remains a top seller for graduation gifts, be it for middle school stepping up ceremonies, high school graduations, or college commencements. Dr. Seusss birthday on March 2nd is the traditional kick-off for Read Across America. Since 1997, schools and libraries across the nation have adopted this celebration to spur children young and old to pick up a book and read, read, read. Whether youre reading aloud to your tots, following along as they sound out the tongue-twisting rhymes, or settling them in bed with a book before lights out, Dr. Seuss is a classic pick. Elizabeth Kennedy, Guide to Childrens Books, has written a great article on Dr. Seuss picture books, beginning readers, and all-around fan favorites. If youre looking for something a bit more
celebratory, the Guide to Entertaining Donna Pilato offers a whimsical Dr. Seuss-themed party. Your kids can also play Seuss-inspired games on Seussville.com, says the Guide to Family Internet. And for tasty fun in the kitchen, check out this review of the Green Eggs and Ham Cookbook. It's Time to Read, America! originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Monday, March 1st, 2010 at 07:00:39.
A New Valentine's Day Tradition
You dont need chocolates to make Valentines Day sweet for your child. No matter their age, kids love learning more about their family history, whether its by listening to stories Grandma tells about her childhood or tracking your tree back hundreds of years. Along with exchanging cards and munching on candies, introduce a new tradition to your child this February, the most popular pastime in the United States: genealogy. Theres no better way to spark a love for history or strengthen relationships with relatives than to explore a more personal past. Give Child Parentings Family Love History Project a whirl. To get the conversation started, the Guide to Genealogy also offers an all-inclusive list of 50 questions for family interviews. Who knows, maybe youll learn a thing or two, too! A New Valentine's Day Tradition originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Monday, February 1st, 2010 at 07:47:58.
Embrace a Snow Day
Did you wake up to a winter wonderland? Dont keep the kids inside for too long! Theyll be itching to explore a world transformed by snow and ice. Before you pack them into snowsuits and boots, though, read up on how to improve your kids snow play this year. Aspiring architects and superb Lincoln Log and Lego builders will adore crafting a snow house or igloo. Whats more fun than a fully customizable Eskimo playhouse? When its time to bring the kids inside, the Guide to Coffee and Tea offers a host of top hot chocolate recipes, including the one used at the White House. And if youre looking for something to serve alongside some post-play hot cocoa, try whipping up a batch of fresh, clean snow ice cream alongside About.coms Guide to Family Crafts, Sherri One last quick tip, you say? Family Fitness offers a list of snow play equipment essentials. Embrace a Snow Day originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Wednesday, January 13th, 2010 at 07:00:34.
Don't Waste Your Winter Break!
Too often it seems that the week between Christmas and New Years is a wasted one for school-age kids. They sleep late, nibble on the leftover cookies and candies from Christmas morning, and consider opening their school books, only to shove them aside until the last day of winter break. To liven up your kids winter break, mix crafts with cleaning to show them that fun and responsibility can go hand in hand. Make a DIY Snow Globe with the Guide to Gifted Children, Carol Bainbridge, or let them play independently with homemade coffee can stilts from the Frugal Living Guide, Erin Huffstetler. Remember, you shouldnt be the only one cleaning up after your guests go home. The Guide to Child Parenting discusses age-appropriate chores for kids. While youre at it, begin thinking about how to dispose of your tree with 6 Ways to Recycle Your Christmas Tree from About.coms Guide to Trees and Shrubs. Don't Waste Your Winter Break! originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Friday, December 25th, 2009 at 10:42:11.
Survive Holiday Shopping
Shopping with the most patient of children can quickly spiral into a nightmare. Whether youre shepherding shoppers-in-training or dragging squalling protesters through the mall, getting in and out as quickly as possibly can save you cranky mood on the drive home and preserve a pleasant shopping experience. With the chaos of Christmas shopping that begins on Black Friday, this is especially true during the holiday season. Learn how to survive shopping with young kids with the Guide to Kids Fashion, Michelle Kouzmine. To keep holiday shopping fun and fancy free, check out these great resources: Survive Holiday Shopping originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Friday, November 27th, 2009 at 07:47:02.
Celebrate Family and Community this Thanksgiving
Celebrate Family and Community this Thanksgiving originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Thursday, November 12th, 2009 at 08:00:04.
What do you look forward to the most when Thanksgiving rolls around? The parades? The football? The food? What about the family?
Thanksgiving offers the perfect setting and days of free time to nurture your childs relationship with her family members and her community. As the holidays draw near, take heed of this list of 10 ideas for outings with grandchildren and pass it on to your parents and in-laws. Allowing children to bond one-on-one with their grandparents is essential to forming close familial relationships that theyll treasure later in life. If your parents are traveling, Nancy Parode, Senior Travel Guide, has some holiday travel tips that are great no matter the season.
Keeping your child involved and engaged in the world around her is just as important. Jennifer Wolf, Guide to Single Parents, offers a few suggestions on ways to volunteer with kids that are perfect for this time of year. Not quite what you're looking for? The Guide to Kids Clubs, Heidi Coghlan, has several more ideas for you to consider, like pampering pets at a local shelter, sponsoring a family in need, and decorating your town for the season
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Bring Kids into the Kitchen
Bring Kids into the Kitchen originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Sunday, November 1st, 2009 at 08:00:01.
As the weather turns colder, its time to turn up the heat in the kitchen. Why not bring the kids with you?
Baking with children, whether theyre barely old enough to stir cookie dough or busy making cupcakes with only your supervision, is a surefire way to get them involved with family traditions. As you mix, measure, and stir, you can share memories of your own childhood and build treasure troves of good times for your kids to store away themselves.
The kitchen is also a natural learning environment. Not only will you be teaching your kids a valuable skill, but you can also transform basic baking actions, like recipe reading, into educational activities. Cooking is a life skill theyll need in the future; starting early will make them safe and comfortable in the kitchen as they grow older and begin to take care of themselves. As Beverly Hernandez, About.coms Guide to Homeschooling, tells us, you can also use baking to teach kids mathematics principles. When you need to select a certain sized dish for baking a cake, teach your children about diameter and circumference. If youre packing up treats for a holiday delivering, let them figure out how big the container needs to be. As you go through the baking process, you can also teach your kids about the science of baking. Let About.coms Guide to Busy Cooks help you along with the hows and whys of baking.
Plus: Read the Top 10 Reasons to Get Kids Cooking from Stephanie Gallagher, Guide to Cooking for Kids.
Carve a Better Pumpkin
Carve a Better Pumpkin originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Saturday, October 10th, 2009 at 11:25:33.
In the weeks before Halloween, its often the pumpkins that garner attention instead of the costumes. Before the kids pull out the newspaper, spoons, and knives, take a few minutes to brush up on the process of crafting a perfectly affordable and delightfully spooktacular jack-o-lantern.
Watch a video that shows you how to carve a pumpkin from beginning to end. Then, instead of investing in a costly pumpkin-carving kit, check out the free patterns provided by About.coms Guide to Crafts. Choose one or let your kids imaginations run wild as they design their own. You can even throw a pumpkin decorating party!
Too Sick for School?
Too Sick for School? originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Thursday, October 1st, 2009 at 08:00:31.
Schools are germ breeding grounds, so its only a matter of time before sniffles and sore throats are passed from one grubby hand to the next. Its time for the age-old question: should you send your tot packing with tissues and a pat on the head, or is he too sick for school?
To get ready for cold and flu season, learn when you should take your child to the doctor, build a flu season tool kit, and find a flu shot with the help of About.coms Cold and Flu Guide.
Have A Healthy After School Snack
Have A Healthy After School Snack originally appeared on About.com Stay-at-Home Parents on Monday, September 14th, 2009 at 08:00:53.
When your kids get home from school, it may be second nature for them to drop their backpacks and hit the pantry. Its easy to let them grab a box or a bag, but mindless munching on pre-packaged foods can take a major toll on their health. To satiate their mid-afternoon cravings, keep healthier options on hand, like grapes, already washed and ready to grab, in the fridge. Try cutting up strawberries and serving them with Reddi-wip to indulge a sweet tooth or slicing an apple and dishing up some caramel or peanut butter. Carrot sticks with ranch dressing provide crunchy satisfaction.
When in doubt, look for pantry-friendly substitutes, like trail mix (homemade to cut the salt). Instead of chocolate chip cookies, try Teddy Grahams. Swap greasy potato chips for tortilla chips and a mild salsa.
And always be sure to set out the proper portion sizes for your kids instead of letting them help themselves. Childhood obesity caused by overeating is a very real (and growing) threat.
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Highlights for Single Parents: 36th Edition
This week's highlights include frugal living tips for single moms and dads, an update on Levi Johnston, and more. On the Blogs: Single Parent Downsizing Home Life - David Mott, who writes Dad's House Blog, shares his thoughts about downsizing in this blog post for Silicon Valley Moms. A Frugal First Year: How a Single Mom on a Tight Income Saved Money - A mom whose son will soon be turning one shares her top tips for saving money during your baby's first year. In the News: Wesley Matthews: A Proud Mama's Boy - The truth about Matthews' "Dynamic Duo" tattoo will make you smile. Levi Johnston Coughs Up $21,000 in Child Support, but Will Fight to Have Payments Reduced - Could Johnston's effort to catch up on back child support work against him in his attempt to modify payments moving forward? Photo © njgphoto of www.istockphoto.com. Highlights for Single Parents: 36th Edition originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Saturday, March 13th, 2010 at 05:00:42.
Celebrate Single Parents' Day on March 21
Single Parents' Day is more than a wonderful opportunity for your kids to rise up and express their gratitude for all you do for them. It's also an opportune time to get away by yourself--even if it's just for ten or fifteen minutes--and reflect on how much you've grown in the time since you began this journey. After all, only you truly know the extent of your personal growth--how you have proven to yourself again and again that you possess more strength and determination than you ever imagined. And this occasion--a day set aside to honor single moms and dads--is a great time to celebrate that truth and recognize the amazing parent you've become. For a list of ideas on how to make the day special, read Celebrate Single Parents' Day. More: Celebrate Single Parents' Day on March 21 originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Thursday, March 11th, 2010 at 13:06:53.
Delegate Some Kids' Spring Cleaning Chores
For the last week, my kids and I have been working on clearing out some clutter: toys they no longer play with, clothes they've outgrown, and "stuff" we should have parted with long ago. It's been a refreshing process! And now that we've cleared some space, we're ready to work on some annual spring cleaning jobs. But this time, I'm not tackling it on my own. Instead, I'm going to be delegating specific spring cleaning chores to each of my kids, and we're going to work on each room together. For a list of the tasks we'll be working on (which you can print out and share with your own kids), read Your Kids' Spring Cleaning Chores. More on Managing Your Home as a Single Parent: Delegate Some Kids' Spring Cleaning Chores originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Tuesday, March 9th, 2010 at 13:40:40.
Highlights for Single Parents: 35th Edition
This week's highlights include tips for giving yourself permission not to be supermom (or superdad), questions about moms raising boys, the latest news about Kate Gosselin on Dancing With the Stars, and more. On the Blogs: Single Mom Reminder: Your Children Love You! - A single mom of twins writes about giving herself permission not to be "that mom." Boys Raised by Moms - Wine Country Mom asks whether boys raised by single moms are automatically at a disadvantage because of not living with a male presence. In the News: Parents and Kids Torn by Japan's Single-Custody Laws - NBC News Producer, Arata Yamamoto, writes about the impact of Japan's child custody laws, which do not permit even the consideration of joint custody. Kate Gosselin: 'Dancing' is 'the Hugest Fear Ever' - Kate Gosselin is scheduled to join Dancing With the Stars on the March 22 season premiere. Photo © njgphoto of www.istockphoto.com. Highlights for Single Parents: 35th Edition originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Saturday, March 6th, 2010 at 05:00:44.
Thrifty Thursday: Project Working Mom to Give Away Nearly $5 Million in Scholarships
Have you considered going back to school this year? Education Dynamics recently launched a scholarship program through the site Project Working Mom 2010, which helps working moms get information about going back to school. The scholarship program: More: Find Single Parent Scholarships Read More Thrifty Thursday Blog Posts on the About.com Parenting Channel:
Thrifty Thursday: Project Working Mom to Give Away Nearly $5 Million in Scholarships originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Thursday, March 4th, 2010 at 05:00:47.
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When Determining Child Custody, Consider Each Child's Unique Needs
More:One of the concerns I have with shared parenting legislation is that going back and forth between homes is not always the best arrangement for every child. Take, for example, children who have special needs. When determining child custody for children with special needs, parents need to consider additional issues, such as how the stress of going back and forth may impact the child's health and development, whether both homes have equal access to necessary medical care, and whether both parents are equipped to take care of the child in an emergency. For more information, read How to Determine Custody of a Child With Special Needs, by contributing writer, Debrina Washington.
When Determining Child Custody, Consider Each Child's Unique Needs originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010 at 15:02:15.
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Can Your Attitude Affect Your Child Custody Case?
It certainly can. That's why I strongly recommend that all newly single parents start keeping a journal, so that they can work through their anger and bitterness toward the other parent in private, rather than in front of the court. In addition, you may find that it's helpful to speak with a professional counselor or therapist, as well, so that your feelings don't wind up negatively impacting your child custody case. In addition, consider what attitudes you need to adopt or revise in order to present yourself to the court as a positive, cooperative co-parent. Even if that's hard to envision right now, it's important to know that that's a factor the courts are looking for. In many child custody disputes, preference is given to the parent who is least likely to obstruct the children's future relationship with the other parent. More: Can Your Attitude Affect Your Child Custody Case? originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Monday, March 1st, 2010 at 16:03:17.
Highlights for Single Parents: 34th Edition
This week's highlights include the reflections of one single mom who opted for joint custody following her divorce, a blogger's indignation that "Raised by Dad" is still considered newsworthy and unusual, an organization working to support single moms with cancer, and more. On the Blogs: Was Joint Custody a Mistake? - Anne wonders what choosing to fight for sole custody, instead of agreeing to a 50/50 arrangement, might have said about her as a mother. "Raised by Dad" Shouldn't Be a Shocker - Lylah makes an excellent point about the way society treats single custodial dads. In the News: Young Mom's Case Should Raise Other Issues - Denise-Marie Santiago reflects on the case of a single mom convicted of criminally negligent homicide and endangering the welfare of her children after leaving them home alone, so that she could go out an buy some beer. "Lean on Me" Walk at Kiwanis Park to Support Single Moms with Cancer - Arizona-based Singleton Moms, an organization that supports single moms with cancer, is hosting its third annual "Lean on Me" walk this weekend. Photo © njgphoto of www.istockphoto.com. Highlights for Single Parents: 34th Edition originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Saturday, February 27th, 2010 at 14:19:23.
America's Distorted Image of the Average Single Mom
eLearners, an organization that helps individuals find legitimate online degree programs, recently paired up with Stephanie Clark, the National Director of Project Single Moms, and Kelton Research to find out what the typical American thinks of single mothers and mothers in general who decide to pursue higher education after having children. One of the most shocking and disturbing findings of the study was that only 44% of Americans believe single mothers "are respectable." Upon reading the press release, I was curious about the full study and what questions were asked, so I contacted the public relations department of eLearners, and they generously provided me with a copy of the entire study. Specifically in reference to single moms, participants were asked "Which of the following statements, if any, do you feel generally apply to single mothers in the U.S.? Please choose all that apply." Read more... America's Distorted Image of the Average Single Mom originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Friday, February 26th, 2010 at 17:04:02.
How to Close Your Child Custody Case After Reaching an Agreement
To find out how, and learn what to do if either of you ends up not following through on the agreement, read the article Reaching a Private Child Custody Agreement, by our legal issues contributing writer, Debrina Washington. Follow me on Twitter | Join my Facebook page How to Close Your Child Custody Case After Reaching an Agreement originally appeared on About.com Single Parents on Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010 at 10:31:33.Let's say that you filed for custody of your children, but you were able to work out your own child custody agreement with your ex before the court date arrived. Would still need to go back and officially close the child custody case? Yes.
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Thrifty parents are swapping babysitting or joining sitter co-ops to avoid the $10-an-hour cost of the local teenager's services
I got involved in my daughter's breakup
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The ultimate Good Wife
In writing about her husband's affair, Elizabeth Edwards is actually dutifully protecting him. That's why we attack her
Father, some want more than a sermon
Popular Cuban-American priest and radio host Rev. Alberto Cutie considers leaving the church to marry the woman for whom he broke 22 years of celibacy
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Shovelling snow and shining shoes isn't the half of it. Foreign workers hired as caregivers can find themselves painting the house and giving manicures
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The Princess and the Frog DVD and Wii Game
As Disney's The Princess and the Frog arrives on DVD next week, young Tiana and Naveen fans may be looking for a more interactive experience. If so, the Wii game may be just the right addition to your video game collection. Check out my review of The Princess and the Frog for the Wii to decide if it's the perfect game for your family. By the way, Disney has begun offering digital versions of their movies. If you choose to buy The Princess and the Frog in a combo DVD pack (compare prices), you'll get access to a digital version to watch on your portable devices. It's a nice way to keep kids entertained in waiting areas and long shopping trips. Read More The Princess and the Frog DVD and Wii Game originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010 at 17:53:13.
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Sexting Isn't Just a Problem for Kids: Teacher Arrested for Sending Nude Photos to Student
With all of the recent press given to the dangers of sexting, you'd think people would start to get the message. It's simply not a good idea. So, today's news that a New Hampshire High School teacher was arrested for, among other things, sending indecent pictures to a 15 year old student is all that much more bizarre. According to the Londonderry Police affidavit (via WBZ), Melinda Dennehy, a teacher at Londonderry High School, sent several nude pictures as well as other explicit messages to a student. The student then forwarded some of the pictures on to friends. The student also alleged that Dennehy had kissed him on several occasions. Dennehy is out on bail, but faces at least one count of indecency when she returns to court in April. Read More: Sexting Isn't Just a Problem for Kids: Teacher Arrested for Sending Nude Photos to Student originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Friday, March 5th, 2010 at 19:02:08.
Congratulations! Family Computing 2010 Reader's Choice Winners
After hundreds of nominations and more than 13,000 votes, you've made your voice heard! Congratulations to the 2010 Family Computing Reader's Awards Winners: Favorite Parenting Blog: Best Virtual World for Kids: Best Family Friendly Video Game: Best Website(s) for Kids:* Check back throughout the week for spotlight blogs on each of the Reader's Choice winners. Read More *Due to technical limitations, we were unable to capture the results of Best Website for Kids vote at exactly 11:59pm. Since it was such a close race right down to the end, we'd like to honor both of these wonderful sites. We apologize for any confusion in the voting process. Congratulations! Family Computing 2010 Reader's Choice Winners originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Monday, March 1st, 2010 at 13:47:26.
Webcams, Chatroulette.com and More Internet Safety
As more and more parents buy netbooks for their families, webcams are becoming the norm in households with children. You may have one to stay in touch with a mom or dad who travels frequently for work or serves in active duty in the military. Perhaps your family enjoys making videos. Either way, an active webcam in your home creates an additional concern for the Internet safety of your children. Take, for instance, Chatroulette.com, a video chat website that has received quite a bit of recent press. As the name suggests, the service pairs you up with a random stranger for video chat. And, although the Chatroulette.com terms of service warn against "obscene, offending, pornographic material," the lack of sign up, moderation or other safety XX makes it entirely inappropriate for young people. As you browse through the available pairings, there is no telling what you might find. The people I saw ranged from harmless to indecent to creepy. If you have a webcam in your house, make sure to talk with your children about its appropriate use. Let them know that webcam sites are off limits unless they are approved by you or a teacher and that adult is present. Read More Webcams, Chatroulette.com and More Internet Safety originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010 at 22:46:12.
Design a Fairy House and Win a Trip to Disney World
Disney's youngest virtual world, Pixie Hollow, is inviting you to lend a creative hand. Fans are asked to draw a Mainland Fairy house and submit it by February 22, 2010. Entries will be judged by the director of Tinker Bell's newest movie, "Tinker Bell and the Great Fairy Rescue." The prize includes a trip for four to the Walt Disney World Resort and the honor of seeing their design recreated as a display at the 2010 EPCOT International Flower and Garden Festival. For more information, fly on over to Pixie Hollow. Read More Design a Fairy House and Win a Trip to Disney World originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Thursday, February 18th, 2010 at 22:27:36.
Barbie Goes High-Tech with a Career in Computer Engineering
Congrats to Barbie who has grown past her "Math is Hard!" phase to tackle her 126th career as a computer engineer. The career was selected, along with that of news anchor, after a popular vote showed strong preferences for the geeked-out fashion doll. The hope is that this generation of Barbie fans will come to see engineering and computer science as "cool" career opportunities. According to the press release from Mattel, designers consulted with the Society of Women Engineers and the National Academy of Engineering to ensure that Barbie's clothes and accessories were authentic for her career. While her pink laptop seems unlikely for a true cubicle-dweller, her binary shirt and cell phone earpiece give her a bit of geek street cred. Computer Engineer Barbie is expected to be available for the 2010 holiday season. Barbie Goes High-Tech with a Career in Computer Engineering originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Wednesday, February 17th, 2010 at 20:24:55.
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MTV’s Sexting In America: When Privates Go Public
For better or worse, MTV always seems to have a finger on the pulse of America's teens. In this case, MTV uses its power for good with their special, "Sexting in America: When Privates Go Public." In it, we are introduced to two young people who have had their lives forever changed by what seemed like innocent sexting pranks. Sexting is the practice of sending naked and/or highly suggestive photos via digital communication (text message, instant message, email, etc.). As the MTV video shows, these photos can easily make it into the wrong hands and quickly spread. In addition, capturing, sending and storing these photos can be result in a sex offender prosecution. It's important to talk with teens about the dangers of sexting and "Sexting in American" is one way of starting the conversation. Please remember that the show is intended for teen audiences and may not be appropriate for young viewers. Read More MTV’s Sexting In America: When Privates Go Public originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Sunday, February 14th, 2010 at 22:28:37.
Reader's Choice: Best Family Friendly Video Game
The Best Family Friendly Video Game award drew nominations from all platforms. The five finalists are a diverse group, but they're all a lot of fun. Do you have a favorite? If so, please take a moment to vote. Voting runs through February 24th. Winners will be announced on March 1, 2010. Read More Reader's Choice: Best Family Friendly Video Game originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Tuesday, February 9th, 2010 at 11:22:48.
Reader's Choice: Best Virtual World for Kids
The Best Virtual Worlds for Kids finalists are all unique, but they have one thing in common - enthusiastic fans! Reading through the nominations, we could see what strong communities these sites are building. Our five finalists for Best Virtual World for Kids are: Please take some time to visit each of the nominees. Once you've chosen a favorite, come back and vote. Voting runs through February 24th. Winners will be announced on March 1, 2010. Read More Reader's Choice: Best Virtual World for Kids originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Monday, February 8th, 2010 at 22:11:43.
Reader's Choice: Best Website for Kids
The Best Website for Kids category brought in some fantastic nominations. The 5 finalists are entertaining and educational. I hope you enjoy them! Please take some time to visit each of the nominees. Once you've chosen a favorite, come back and vote. Voting runs through February 24th. Winners will be announced on March 1, 2010. Read More Reader's Choice: Best Website for Kids originally appeared on About.com Family Computing on Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010 at 10:02:24.
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Streetwise Start-Up Tips The Truth About Web Development Outsourcing Senior Software Engineer Tim Golen talks about some of the potential pitfalls of outsourcing your web development. Sure, there can be a time and a place for outsourcing. (Specifically, if you don't have much money! See Dan's article above.) But under some circumstances, trying to "save money" by outsourcing can often lead to a lot of wasted money (and time, and aggravation) in the end. If you are not using stock photography in your website designs, you will want to read this article by our resident designer, Andrew Krzysiak. In it he talks about the various stock photography sites and the pros and cons of each. Stock photography is probably the cheapest and easiest way to give your sites a professional look, so check out this article today! Loral Langemeier is a world-renowned speaker and financial strategist. In this article, Loral talks about the things you need to do to evaluate and if necessary change the programming you received in childhood about money and how "difficult" it is to come by. If you are stuck in a financial rut, read this article to see how to get out of it.
If you haven't checked out the TopOneReport.com, you should do so right now. It's a free online resource for people who are interested in learning the ins and outs of running a business online. Here are some articles from the past week that you won't want to miss:
TopOneReport's resident jack-of-all-trades Dan Nickerson explains that starting an onlien business doesn't need to cost you thousands of dollars. He outlines some tried-and-true shoestring start-up resources that you will definitely want to check out if you want to start your own business but are short on cash.![Reblog this post [with Zemanta]](http://img.zemanta.com/reblog_e.png?x-id=6f91ea24-d9bc-45d0-85f5-8a976510028e)
Stay Tuned to TopOneReport TV!
The first video installment is Joel Comm giving a review of the Ignite Fort Collins presentation. If you have been to an Ignite, or even if you have never heard of one, this video is worth watching. Do you have a question about anything related to running your online business? Write the TopOneReport TV at editor@toponereport.com and your question could be chosen to be answered by an expert for the next TopOneReport TV segment.
TopOneReport TV just launched on YouTube. Become a regular viewer and you stand to learn tons about starting and running your online business, including: social media strategies, SEO techniques, the latest in web and mobile app development, design tips, video tutorials, and much more.
Barrier of Entry for iPhone Apps Lowered
A new product on the market called My App Creator, however, has made it incredibly easy and relatively cheap for just about anyone to create an iPhone app. Why would you need an iPhone app you ask? The marketing potential of the apps created by My App Creator is vast and very lucrative. If you own a business, are a public figure of any sort (or hope to be soon), or are trying to get out the word of your brand, then you definitely are going to want to check out getting your own iPhone app via My App Creator. Your own iPhone app would enable you to keep your customers, clients, and fans informed of your tweets and Facebook updates, product promotions, upcoming events or speaking engagements, and much more. If you are looking to inject some life into your marketing campaign, an app with My App Creator is definitely going to bring the highest ROI.
Everyone is talking about the iPhone these days. Part of it is Apple's signature great design, but a big part of the iPhone's popularity is the existence of the iTunes App Store, where you can buy a wide range of cool apps to use with your phone. Making an app for the iPhone has so far not been for the novice-- it requires development know-how (or the money to buy it), start up cash, and braving Apple's app approval process. ![Reblog this post [with Zemanta]](http://img.zemanta.com/reblog_e.png?x-id=ba0b8a04-ae7d-4a6a-92ee-8208151cdf5a)
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Viral marketing is something of a holy grail for a lot of online marketers. Everyone wants to have a product, video, or idea that is so popular, it spreads like wildfire all over the Internet in a matter of days. While it can be a little difficult to predict which idea will go viral (it's a little like predicting where lightning will strike next), it is possible to learn from the best. This article gives you some examples of successful viral marketing campaigns of the past for you to learn from. Have you heard the buzz about Google Buzz? Are you wondering what it even is? Google Buzz is a type of social media aggregator, and it is basically a way to have all of your social media and RSS feeds happen in one place. Check out this article for various social media aggregator options and choose the one that will work the best for you! The Art of Filming an Interview Have you considered using video as a form of marketing for your online business? Top One Report's resident video expert Chris Harper breaks down everything you will need to know to film an interview and to use it as a marketing device. As Chris explains, people naturally confer respect and authority on anyone who is being interviewed, so even interviewing yourself about your own product can have real marketing potential.
Have you ever wanted to start your own business but didn't have the start-up cash? Or maybe you are just interested in earning a little money on the side. The newly digital toponereport.com can help you do just that. This is no get-rich quick scheme. The Top One Report is a trusted, reliable, and smart resource for anyone interested in starting their own online business. We cover everything from how to set up your first website to how to promote it, get traffic, put ads on it, sell products, and much, much more. Here are just a few of our recent posts:
Successful Viral Marketing Campaigns
Lifestreaming and Social Media Aggregators
Buying a Printer Help and Tips
Buying a printer? Whether it is color, black and white, laser, inkjet, or bubblejet, these tips should help in your purchase decisions. One factor you may not have considered when buying a printer is the noise generated by the unit. Printers can be especially noisy when generating a large print job, limiting their potential use in some situations. Heed this warning, else you may find yourself returning to a computer or office supply store in a foul mood. Before you take your printer to the cash register, or before you click the "Buy" button if you are purchasing a printer online, ensure the printer comes with all cables needed to connect to your machine. Read all eleven tips for great ideas and things to consider before you make a purchase on a printer.
Before purchasing a printer, make sure it will fit on your desk, and don't make it so tight that your printer doesn't have a few inches around itself to ventilate (in heavy use, or if you keep your printer on all the time whether you are printing documents or not, your printer can get quite warm). When calculating the printer size requirements, make sure to get dimensions of not just the printer but also all paper trays, paper feeds, and the exit tray.
Garage Remodeling Ideas - extra space, more storage, & cool ideas
Many people find that a garage offers the perfect environment to house their home office, studio space, or workshop. As many garages are attached or near the home, they can often be easily fitted with the same comforts as a home: heating and cooling, phone wiring, even plumbing. However, transforming your garage doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your storage area. Many garages today have become multifunctional, allowing for cars, general storage, and a home office or workshop all in the same space. If you find you will be losing too much storage space in your garage, consider building a small storage shed in your yard to house tools, sporting equipment and seasonal items. A building separate from the house will expand your storage space, allowing you to use the garage in ways that you could not use a shed: electricity or heating, for example. In addition to remodeling your current garage space, you could also consider an addition above the garage. Raising the roof and adding a room for work space above your existing garage can give you additional space, not to mention increase the value of a home, without changing the floor plan.
Kite Flying Tips
When choosing a spot for kite flying you should take safety into consideration. Steer clear of power lines, roads, airports, buildings and trees. Hills can also cause trouble by making the wind bumpy, which makes flying a kite that much harder. A wide-open space like a park or beach is ideal. Even the center of a baseball field can provide enough space to fly. Kites have a way of getting tangled with other kites, so you shouldn't fly on top of other kites.
Learn many aspects of flying kites from kite selection, to when and where to best fly a kite.
Learn the best way to launch your kite. Hey go fly a kite.
Pumpkin Carving and Pumpkin Carving Patterns for Halloween
Whether it's simply carving a pumpkin to sit on the door step for Halloween night or holding a pumpkin carving party with you're friends and family, this age old tradition is a main event for young and old alike. Pumpkin Carving 101 was first published in September of 1996 as part of the Halloween Online Magazine with the mission of providing quality information and entertainment to everyone interested in this wonderful tradition for celebrating Halloween.
Read all the great tips for decorating for halloween in this tim honored tradition of pumpkin carving and making jack-o-lanterns.
RC Car Tips
Over 10,000,000 page views, 290+ pages of information and 423+ images about rc cars, also called remote control or radio controlled cars. Reviews, photos, comparisons, specs and buying recommendations to help you choose and buy for fun or racing. Articles, videos and tips from enthusiasts. Plus links to local and online hobby shops. Also called nitro rc cars because the hobby fuel used contains nitro methane to increase speed and power. Popular are the 1/10 on-road nitro touring cars. Cen CTR5 (90mph), Nitro 4TEC (70mph), and more.
For truck lovers, a big section on remote controlled rc trucks, such as electric, nitro, monster and mini r/c trucks. Fast growing is the short course rc trucks... great for beginners and experts.
The fastest and most exciting category, gas powered rc cars can go as fast as 50 - 60+ miles per hour. The 1/8 gas cars go 70 - 80 mph in racing competitions. Cen CTR 5.0 is coming out with a 90+mph on road nitro rc car.
For beginners, electric rc cars are the best... easier to control, build, and maintain. New are HPI Sprint 2 Flux, Formula 10, Cup racer, Tamiya M05 and F104. Great reviews have been posted in rc car forums.
Budget Home Decorating
Budget Styles is a magazine style website devoted to helping you with home decorating projects and ideas. Whether you'd like to get ideas and tips on how to decorate various parts of your home inexpensively, or you're looking for do it yourself home decorating projects and ideas, you'll find it all right here!
Area rugs are a fabulous yet inexpensive way to give a room an entirely new look. Rugs have come a long way since the time they were only bought for practical purposes and were only available in boring old styles and staid colors. Rugs today have undergone a complete transformation and are available in a wide assortment of shapes, sizes, colors and designs. Enter any rug store and you are sure to be bombarded by round, oval and rectangular rugs in vibrant colors and every size imaginable. Rugs can be hand made or machine made and the materials most popularly used include silk, wool, cotton and bamboo.
Find many tips tips for updating your home or just give a room a breath of fresh air.
Basic Bathroom Remodeling Tips - Tips for Homeowners
Bathrooms are typically among the smallest rooms in the house, yet we use them for many daily routines. Often, several household members want to use the bathroom at about the same time. Everyone wants a fully functional bathroom that is pleasing to the eye and easy to keep clean. That's a lot to ask of a room that is only a bit bigger than a closet. For these reasons, good design has become increasingly important to a successful bathroom remodeling project. Bathroom remodeling is one of the most popular home improvement projects. Whether adding a new bath or remodeling an old one, there are a number of things to keep in mind to make sure you get the most out of the project. Be sure you read this site and grasp the simple guiding suggestions for a successful remodel or updating to your bathroom.
Christmas-Cookies.com - hundreds of Christmas cookie recipes
Recipes, cookie recipe forum, and baking tips! All you need for the most memorable Christmas cookies ever! Over 540 recipes and counting! Browse the collection of scrumptious Christmas cookie recipes both modern and traditional. Need baking and decorating tools? Check out the list of preferred online retailers of baking supplies. Find the best tools and products for baking cookies here too. the best ingredients and more are even suggested as well as baking tips galore. Make some fantastic treats this year with great ideas and suggestions from this site.
Find the most delicious cookie recipes to tantalize your Holiday guests or for sharing at the office party.
TravelSkoot - Peter Greenberg's Fall Travel Tips
TravelSkoot is a website that allows you to plan a single day's adventure, a historical tour, map out your favorite places, or a full week's vacation by simply plotting points on the map! Be it a rigidly scheduled pub-crawl with friends one night, or a historical walking tour, TravelSkoot provides the tools for you to create your personalized activity. You can go to a skoot for a city you've never been to by searching for skoots created by other users. Use those skoots as they are or go ahead and edit a previously created skoot from another user. Have guests coming to town? Create a skoot for them with the best place for coffee in the morning, the way to shops, and a place for a little lunch so they can get around while you're at work. What's more, skoots can be viewed on WAP enabled phones on your mobile browser for easy access when you're on the streets.
Buying Digital Cameras - What To Look For Tips
Digital cameras come in many sizes, shapes, and price ranges. Since you will be living with your decision to purchase a particular make and model for many years, it is a good idea to carefully weigh the various options available before buying a camera. Break the decision down into a checklist of factors to help determine which camera is best for you. Consider image quality, performance, ergonomics, features, and price. Also consider whether you will just be taking family snap shots or something more elaborate.
First decide how much you are willing to pay for a digital camera. You may need to adjust this figure up if you want and need a lot of manual control and features. Decide on camera body size, and features that you may actually use. Then look for a camera in your price range.
Faced with so many choices from point and shoot to full blown pro cameras, this task can be very confusing. Sort out all your needs and read the great tips to set you straight and clear out the confusing jargon of buying a camera.
Guide to Christmas Shopping Tips
You can save this holiday season and still get wonderful gifts as long as you set a Christmas shopping budget well in advance. Making a list of your gift recipients and knowing how much you will spend on each one will help you look out for bargains.
Read the many articles on shopping to save money and learn how to make gift shopping easier. The Holidays are right around the corner and in today's economy who wouldn't like to save money, time and energy from the hustle and bustle.
Family First
Marital affairs: what happens after spouses cheat
Why Americans are getting more conservative about affairs, but seem willing to accept them in their own marriages.
Binge drinking spreads to Italy
Italy takes steps to stop binge drinking, which is growing among Italians thanks to the influx of hard-drinking tourists.
Who does the law favor in Jackson children custody case?
Parental rights count for much, but courts today are giving more credence to claims from a child's primary caregiver.
A few million US grandmas know what's ahead for Katherine Jackson
The mother of the King of Pop joins, at least for now, the ranks of grandparents raising grandchildren.
How the recession is reshaping the American family
The downturn is forcing the man of the house to spend more time at home, altering roles everywhere from the laundry room to the child-care center.
How the recession is reshaping the American family
The downturn is forcing the man of the house to spend more time at home, altering roles everywhere from the laundry room to the child-care center.
People making a difference: Sheema Kermani
In Pakistan, this women's rights activist stages plays that stir controversy – and thought.
'Monitor' cake a hit with several generations
For years, her family has made a chocolate cake recipe clipped from this newspaper.
Chefs in the making
Cooking schools help teens build culinary skills and confidence.
A natural foods junkie at McDonald's
He couldn't imagine anything good about fast-food places – until he took his son to one.
From homeless to actress
A theater class helps marginalized women reclaim their lives.
Barbecue, North Carolina style
Different regional flavors inspire lifelong devotees.
A household balancing act
Domestic roles shift when one spouse loses a job.
Sturdy beans for a leaner budget
Long the staple of frugal Yankees, Boston baked beans enjoy a revival.
The traveling rice cooker
The best meals we had in Italy came from my mother's suitcase.
The lure of the chicken stock
In the grocery store aisle, the cartons call my name as I dream up thick, fragrant soups.
Simple pleasures gain ground
In tough times, people are increasingly turning to activities such as board games and musical evenings with friends.
A tasty reminder of home
The kitchen filled with the scents of a faraway land.
Eat local – even in winter
Many farmers' markets no longer shut down in cold weather.
Food and films for thought
Berlin film festival sparks conversations about sustainability and food production over elegant cuisine.
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