Teaching Your Child Money Habits for Life
Financial responsibility goes beyond the porcelain pig
For most adults, the first brush with money management came in the form of a porcelain pig. A nickle here or a dollar there for every
chore completed or good deed. Financial responsibility, for the most part, stopped with the piggy bank. Many of the Echo Boomer
generation -- those born between the 1970s and early 1990s -- agree that learning how to spend, save, and invest wisely just wasn't a
part of life's lessons growing up. "I wish I understood the value and attributes of money at a young age," says
Indeed, piggy banks may not be enough to impress healthy saving habits in young people. Especially these days. Many
Americans are kicking themselves for being reactionary to the Great Recession, scrimping and saving only after things hit
rock bottom. Now faced with a deteriorating job market, fragile housing market, and the threat of a double-dip recession,
more consumers are reshaping their spending habits and are showing a renewed commitment to saving -- behavior we haven't
seen in recent decades. The generation born during the Great Depression that went on to fight in World War II, which
It's clear that children today lead a more extravagant lifestyle -- laden with trendy wardrobes, smart phones, video games, and other expensive gadgets -- than their parents did. And it doesn't help when parents simply dole out cash with no strings attached. Upon graduating high school and flying the coop, many teenagers are likely to be walloped by exorbitant debts, making it extremely difficult to purchase a car or home down the road due to poor credit.
So, how can you teach your children the importance of saving, accounting for their spending, and self-discipline? Here are some money management strategies and tactics for parents that can help kids take control of their financial futures:
"Like mastering a new language, developing athletic skills, or becoming a master musician, financial fluency requires time,
practice, intention, the acquisition of financial language and values," says
Money does not grow on trees.
Nor does it magically appear from ATMs. Children should learn from a very early age that they have to work to earn money. Ask them: "Do you know where money comes from?" If you go to the bank or withdraw money from an ATM, explain to your child that it is your money coming out of your bank account and that you worked for that money.
Provide a weekly allowance.
Parents can pay their child a weekly allowance for completing household chores, whether it's doing the dishes, mowing the lawn, cleaning up their room, baby-sitting, or any other age-appropriate task. You can track chores or good behavior on a chart, checking off what they accomplished that day. By week's end, you can pay them for their accomplishments. Divvy up the weekly allowance into different envelopes, such as "entertainment," "clothes," or "savings."
Show them your monthly bills.
There's no need to get too granular with your personal finances, but showing your children bills such as mortgage, electricity, utility, cable, and car insurance helps them understand what it costs to run a household. You can even show them your banking statements. This will help them learn how deposits and withdrawals are made.
Go shopping together.
The supermarket is a great way to show kids how to save money. You can use the items on your list and compare prices between products, to help children look out for less-expensive brands. For the little ones, use relatable items, such as chocolate chip cookies or milk.
Use online games and websites.
A fun way to get young children interested in money management is through online games. For example,
Get a job, create a budget.
Once your child turns Sweet Sixteen, require him or her to get a part-time job. The money earned can go toward things that they want, such as clothing, tech gadgets, or entertainment -- but only if it falls within their budget. Your child may not have enough money to spend on an iPod because of, say, weekly transportation or car-related expenses.
Start a savings account.
Get your kids into the habit of saving by starting a savings account, to which they contribute a set amount each week. Set realistic goals and work with them on how they are going to achieve the goals. The account will teach them to save regularly. And reviewing monthly bank statements will help them to understand the concept of interest accrual.
Develop their entrepreneurial spirit.
Landing a job and making the most of it will allow your child to stand out from the pack. "Twenty-first century kids will approach careers with the notion of 'making a job; not just taking a job,'" says Godfrey. "With unemployment for teens and 20-somethings running well into the double digits, entrepreneurial skills and outlook will be a competitive advantage."
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