Teens and Spring Break A Sometimes Lethal Combination
Mitch Albom

 

Matt James fell off a balcony. He died. He was 17, four years under the legal drinking age. Police say he was drunk. This would be a tragic story if it were an isolated story.

It's more tragic because it is not.

James was not the first underage kid to die during spring break this year. He wasn't the first in Florida, nor was he the first in party-happy Panama City Beach. He wasn't even the first in Panama City Beach to fall off a fifth-floor balcony. Just two weeks earlier, a 19-year-old man from Georgia did the same thing. Fell off. Died. Alcohol, according to the guy's friends, was involved in that one, too.

The reason James' story got huge attention over the past week was that he had been a top recruit for Notre Dame, a football star from Cincinnati with a bright future. An offensive lineman, James was hailed for his agility and his towering presence. After his death, the Internet lit up with tributes. Tearful farewells from friends and teammates. Matt James was mourned as a pied piper to small kids, a gentle giant.

Nobody spoke about how much alcohol it takes to intoxicate a 6-foot-8, 290-pound body. Nobody spoke about how preposterous it is to be having an argument with people in a room next door by leaning over the balcony and shaking your finger.

Nobody spoke about how a 17-year-old, on a trip with 40 other kids and six adults, manages to drink enough to be in such a state -- at 6:30 in the evening, not exactly the wee hours -- with nobody stopping him.

In fact, when James' high school football coach was asked by the media about the intoxication element, he said: "I think you trivialize the situation if you start focusing on that. A young man, a 17-year-old young man, lost his life."

Yes. And alcohol may be the reason.

There is nothing trivial about that.

No place for teenagers

If anything, alcohol is the real story here. Between March 11-28, police said they arrested 985 people in Panama City Beach for underage possession of alcohol. Read that again. Nine hundred eighty-five kids. And I call them kids, because when it comes to drinking, they are.

Which raises the question, especially with James, a 12th-grader: What are these kids doing down there? Since when did spring break become a high school thing? Since when is 40 kids with six adults -- who, according to the football coach, weren't even there as official chaperones -- a good ratio?

How much more evidence do you need that Florida, spring break and hotel rooms can be a dangerous combination? There is an awful history of people falling to their deaths from balconies in the Sunshine State. Sometimes they are jumping to another room to avoid crowded elevators. Sometimes they are diving into swimming pools. Sometimes they are taking foolish dares.

And sometimes they have no idea how precarious their posture is.

In any and all cases, it is no place to send your high school kid. I don't care how much they beg. I don't care how hard they work in school. And I really don't care how much they promise not to drink. Come on. We were all that age. Between the pressure from your friends, the ease of acquisition and the teenage ability to stay up longer and later than any adult chaperone, booze is always going to be a threat.

How do you avoid a threat?

How about staying away.

Yes, kids will be kids

Now, of course, your prayers go out to James' family and friends. Any death of a young, healthy man is heartbreaking.

But dying in war is one thing. Dying on spring break is another. There is no kind way to say this. But you cannot, in good conscience, paint Matt James as a tragic hero. At best he is a victim of naivete, thinking alcohol is just fine for a 17-year-old, and balconies are not dangerous places.

At worst, he is an example of the brazen fearlessness that young men exude, sometimes with deadly results. What, one imagines, could possibly have been so important to have an argument over across a balcony five stories high?

Probably something that would make you say, "Ah, you know kids." And that's the point. If you know kids, you don't allow them in those situations. Then, hopefully, you don't have to mourn them.

 

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