Can Profanity Help Your Career?
Can profanity help your career? What about raising your voice or slamming down your phone? Most of us do our best to fit in at the office and keep our emotions in check, but could swearing, getting angry and making a scene actually help you keep your job, or even get promoted? If done correctly, I think they could.
I learned a very important lesson early on in my career. Your boss, clients, investors or constituents need to see that you care. When things go badly, they want someone who jumps into action. They want to feel that you care more deeply about the problem than they do. They want someone to get upset, and maybe even swear a little. About a week ago,
Patience, kindness, levelheadedness and understanding are wonderful qualities to embody at work. These are critical characteristics that help boost creativity and productivity and that provide a good foundation for managing and leading a team. But if you always operate in Mr.
Several years ago, a colleague and good friend of mine was fired. He was responsible for managing a firm that was installing a new phone and computer system at our company. There were significant delays and issues throughout the process. My friend was levelheaded and rational throughout the two-month installation until he was canned. After he was terminated, his boss told me he didn't have what it took to get the job done and that he didn't seem to care about the project. The reality was that my friend had all the skills needed and cared deeply about the project. He worked 70-plus-hour weeks and lost sleep over integration problems. But my friend failed to grasp a fundamental truth; perception trumps reality. Upper management saw him as ineffectual and passive when what they wanted was someone to fight for the project and the company. Don't tell me you care; show me.
When you're too rational, too understanding and too controlled, all we see is apathy. Just ask President Obama. He's been criticized for his even temper in the face of a financial crisis, sky-high unemployment and billion-dollar
So what does all of this have to do with you and your career? Everything. When the stakes are high, don't be afraid to make a scene or to show people you care. Raise your voice. Get upset. Slam a phone headset or two. Don't make this a daily occurrence, or you'll just be identified as the crazy guy on the eighth floor. When something goes wrong, try to work it out calmly. If that doesn't work, go a little crazy and fight like your job depends on it, because it just might.
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